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Old 06-16-2009, 01:25 PM #1
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I am so glad I found this! I was a member of the Healthboards & had devistating news recently and was going there for support. (I found out my husband cheated on me) & The other woman (the one my husband cheated with 7 yrs ago) posted on my thread & the Healthboards banned me & accused me of playing a HOAX! Are you freaking kidding me? There is a whole long drawn out story behind my entire situation that I will not get into know. I have to find the right board here for that. But I am so angry! I can't believe they did that. They even posted that on my thread before they locked it down.

Anyway, I am glad to have you all over here and am looking forward to getting to you guys!
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I think I read on here that that room kicks ppl out allot.
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I'm sorry for all you've been through! Hope you make lots of friends here and find the support you deserve. I believe you will - lots of friendly, helpful folks here. And the mods? Well, they are THE best.



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I don't have experience with this but am sending thoughts your way. I would ecnourage you to also reach out to your family and freinds in real time. I would think this is a lonely and confusing time. Just know it is not your fault and no reason is good enough or an excuse to be treated this way. Take care
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Welcome to NT!!!I believe in trust, If it's twice now he's cheated would you be better with him or without him. Think about you.
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Welcome to NT, sav3.

I'm sorry for the reasons you're here. I don't really feel qualified to offer advice on this subject as I've never experienced what you're going through.....but if it's been done twice I think I'd be asking myself if I really wanted to keep putting myself through this pain.

I keep thinking of the saying......."once a cheater always a cheater". I'm sure others have recovered from this very blatant breech of trust.....but I'm sure it takes some hard work from both sides.

Good luck to you.
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