Yeah, but there are many many ways to take care of yourself and using just one thing to show that someone isn't taking care of themself is quite ridiculous.

I am a 24 year old female and have never worn makeup. The only thing close is lip balm. If I walked into a place with ratty hair, looking and smelling like I hadn't showered in a week.. that may be different. But some people choose not to wear makeup for many many different reasons, and that's not equal to not caring for yourself.

I shower, brush my teeth, wash my clothes, etc etc etc. So, if I look fine but don't wear makeup because I have extremely sensitive skin, that means I don't take care of myself? I don't think so.

And I know you were just giving a reason why that may have mattered, and that you are not the doctor who wrote that--my problem is not with you.. my problem is with anyone who looks at one tiny aspect of someone's life and jumps to a major conclusion.

Just as it would not be fair for a doctor (or anyone else) to judge that a person is fully capable of working just because that person can get up and walk. That's just silly..