You are not alone in your thoughts or how you're thinking. Of course surgeons have to state all risks. They just have to, even if not a single one of his/her patients have died from complications.

From what you state, you are in "good" shape.

But, I'd suggest this (which applies to me and others, too): Have your head in the "right" place before you give the okay. Invasive surgery isn't something you'd be here mentioning if it was life/death (spinal cord compression so bad, etc.); you'd already be in surgery or it would be behind you.

Anything done: You have to go in with your spirits high and with positive thoughts toward the outcome.

It sounds like you may need but a bit of time to digest and bolster yourself.

If your surgeon has not had a bunch of patients dying (exact same surgery), it is fear that is gripping you. I understand that. Sooo, give yourself some time - to understand with everything that's overwhelming.

If you aren't risking paralysis, give yourself time.

You'll be okay. But: Thoughts of dying going in are not good. Think of coming out better than you feel now.

I've not dealt with fusions: My spine plainly sucks from my C- to L- and S levels. For me, surgery would be piecemeal, or like someone doing some Leggo thing. ACDF is the scariest prospect, and what my neurosurgeon wants to do first. Like... yeah... I want... well... skip it: You're dealing with your own thougths and that's where the focus should remain.

If something feels if-y, and time is on your side, I say: Wait until thoughts of dying so young are not a the tip of your fingertips.

I agree with Bobbie. More than likely, you will be ok since you are healthy and young. I have five fusions. They were painful but no problems. I am over weight and in my sixties. I will tell you I have confidance in my surgeon. Do you know anyone that has ever had spinal surgery? I know several since being on the forum so long. None has ever died from the surgery, that I know about. I have had seven back surgeries myself, and no problems. I was scared the first time tho, so I can understand your fears. I was 50 before I had my first back surgery.

Talk it over with your surgeon or GP. Let him know of your fears. My doc told me he had done over 4000 before mine. That calmed me down. If you have any questions let us know.
Good Luck,
Fancylady