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01-19-2010, 09:28 AM | #1 | |||
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I'm really angry right now at the family members of one of our residents at work.... She choked on a piece of bread and lost consciousness. They called the ambulance and she ended up in ICU..... The family was angry that they didn't let her die.... her kids want the money.... This is not one of the alzheimers residents... she had just moved from independent to assisted living and was doing great.... I'm just amazed at how some of our elderly are treated....
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01-19-2010, 05:57 PM | #2 | |||
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That's so horrible. It's people like who cause me to loose all faith in humanity. I hope she makes a full recovery and then decides to write them all out of her will.
I understand why that would make you angry.
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01-19-2010, 06:09 PM | #3 | |||
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01-19-2010, 07:19 PM | #4 | |||
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Hi...
well, from FeelingGoofy's post though what i got was that the kids were not concerned about their mom's wishes but about inheriting her money. which sounds icky to me. now this DNR thing though, independently of this incident... how does that work... i mean, basically even if something gets stuck in your throat - say, which can be dislodged so you can breathe again in time NOT to cause BRAIN DAMAGE at all... then, does a DNR clause mean they are supposed to let you die? Barbo, i wonder if you could explain? sorry. ~ waves ~ Last edited by waves; 01-20-2010 at 01:56 AM. Reason: RAIN damage ==> BRAIN damage... oops!!! |
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01-19-2010, 08:36 PM | #5 | |||
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state laws vary but here is link regarding a dnr order
http://www.merck.com/mmhe/sec01/ch009/ch009g.html
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01-20-2010, 12:07 AM | #6 | |||
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It sounds to me that the hearts of the children where not right. Hearing this report sounds like there was no love for the victom,a the children just wanted the money. Dieing from choking on food is not a natural death. The patient lived,and survived the eating accident. It's sad that the children wanted the parent to pass away. BF
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01-20-2010, 02:16 AM | #7 | |||
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thank you Barbo for bringing up the DNR thing, and Jaded, for the link! i learned something new.
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Well, she's well now... let's hope this lady stays in good health to a RIPE old age... it is sad her family doesn't appreciate her but perhaps other residents do at least. ~ waves ~ |
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01-20-2010, 09:00 PM | #8 | |||
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01-20-2010, 07:06 AM | #9 | |||
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Dear Spanish Moss,
i admire your ability to capture the different possible facets of this situation in such a compassionate manner. ~ waves ~ |
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01-20-2010, 08:28 AM | #10 | |||
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Hi guys.... just wanted to give you an update on Anne... Shes doing quite well actually, suppose to come back to our facility tomorrow. Barbo, i understand what you are saying... she does have a DNR, but the kids are only after her money. we have several residents who live where i work and their children seldom ever come to see them. Only on holidays. Anne is one of them. It just angers me when i think about it. I'd much rather have my mother here than have her gone and get her money..... Anyway I hope you guys have a good Wednesday. It is normally my day off, but i'm going in to work the front desk. The girl who normally works it had to work midnight to 8:00 last night to train another person. Since I'm off on Weds., and Thurs. I normally am the one who gets asked to work.
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