Resentment= to feel or show displeasure and hurt or indignation at (some act, remark, etc.) or toward (a person), from a sense of being injured or offended

When our parents, don;t see the real person in us, or understand what is in our mind and thoughts, they tend to ignore our behaviour in the hope as their off spring we will eventually level out into what they percieve to be normality.

some parents do not offer encouragement with every step we take, but are more than willing to see fault in all that we do...........criticising every move you make.


But as i sadly learned this past year at 18 years old adulthood is then reached.................

as a parent myself its hard to watch mistakes being continually made, but i bite my tongue....................[and read above line]


in the hope as their off spring we will eventually level out into what they percieve to be normality...........................



We alll...........both as children/parent want support recognition sympathy encouragement to achieve & be recognised.......................to be loved.........


Sadly because we are formed from the same blood.................all of the above is not a right....................some people are kind in nature others are not...........some give love........some shun it...........

HUMAN BEINS CAN BE CRUEL.......................the only person you can totaly rely on is YOURSELF...........................

BUT REMEMBER KAMA..............give out good = get good back give out positive get positive back etc.......................[but not in any imediate time frame accept that a hundred good deeds may only be returned to you by one good deed..................give more expect less.......................


then when the good times happen you appreciate them much more,

Blue you are an inteligent young woman, use your gifts to help the world, and the WORLD will settle all debts humans have bestowed upon you..........love is around every corner...............just open your heart.............please turn all negative thoughts to positive............and never lose HOPE


h= hold
o=on
p=please
e-eventually..................................LIFE GETS BETTER

David

Wise words David.

For July (and Blue too)

Go back through this thread and read the words of wisdom in the posts.

Remember that you are not alone.

I'd like to end this post by quoting David.

h= hold
o=on
p=please
e-eventually..................................LIFE GETS BETTER

Take care of You!

My dear friends:

Thank you so much for being part of my life...

You are wise, sweet, comprehensive, caring, smart... you name it, everything one would need to be happy... and everything that the people around me is not... I would love to have a dad like David, a sister like Abbie, etc !

Ugh, everybody around me is so cruel... I have told you this before and I have gave you examples... is not that Im the sweetest pea in earth or anything, but seriously, people around me say things to me that Im like... uh ?? are you serious ?? how can you tell me those things !?

Im too weak you know... that is my conclusion... I cant handle people's insults... they scare me... They make me angry and then, I feel so sad...

I will try to read more about Karma and try to understand it better.... I do understand I have to be good

Abbie... as I was reading your post, I was feeling something very special in my heart... Im starting to believe God is in our hearts... I want to believe that...

Dear all, thank you one more time for everything and for always cheer me up !!

Hi sweetheart!

I wish there was something I could say to help you, but, as you know, I'm feeling a lot of the same things, and if I had any advise to give I would make us both better.

I wish you wouldn't lose faith. Faith is all I have. Maybe it doesn't make life much easier, but it can be somewhat comforting to believe, no matter how faintly, that this life means something. But it doesn't matter if you believe in Him now, He will be waiting for you when you are ready.

God is there because we need Him, but we are here because He also needs us.

Besides, He led you here to the people who love you no matter what; to people who will understand and sypathize with you.

I wish I could help you.

Love and s

You are wrong my dear twin....

YOU HELPED ME ALOT INDEED !!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ALWAYS DO !!!

Thank you for your words... you made me see things different !!!

Uff, if only God could give me a sign...

Love for everybody !!

Blue this message is'mt from god but its a good message and a sign for you


Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.
-- Oprah Winfrey

David

these are also great messages

Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.
-- Helen Keller



Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so you shall become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil.
-- James Allen



Even if I don't reach all my goals, I've gone higher than I would have if I hadn't set any.
-- Danielle Fotopoulis



Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.
-- Denis Waitley


Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson



I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.
-- Helen Keller



I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again.
-- Stephen Grellet



If everything is smooth sailing right from the beginning, we cannot become people of substance and character. By surmounting paining setbacks and obstacles, we can create a brilliant history of triumph that will shine forever. That is what makes life so exciting and enjoyable. In any field of endeavour, those who overcome hardships and grow as human beings are advancing towards success and victory in life.
-- Daisaku Ikeda

Thank you so much David

I needed those specially in New Year's Eve...

Thank you a lot, I mean, A LOT. From my heart !!!


(Im not sure they are not from God )

Maybe God is sending signs, but we, as humans, don't recognise them. Every ray of sunshine, or smile from a stranger, anything that makes you feel better for even the smallest amount of time. Maybe they're all little signs from God.

He doesn't make big flashy gestures, or swoop down from the heavens to make people feel better. If He did, we would become dependant on Him, and how could we ever look after ourselves or those we love?

God gave us free will because he wants us to be free.

New Years Eve is almost over, and it looks like we'll both survive. (I plan on going to bed as early as possible to avoid it )

Thinking of you ((Blue))

Annnnndddddddd........ I survived the new year's eve !!!! Will I survive January 1st and 2nd.... ??? Most boring days ever !!!