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09-06-2015, 03:07 PM | #1 | |||
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Hi Sam
One of the hardest things to do in life is tell someone close to you and are emotional attached, is your inner thoughts and feelings. Your own emotions become overwhelming causing you to pause, hesitate and literally freeze making it impossible to talk about your issues. Others have already said write your feelings down on Paper. Two great reasons for this 1. If its on paper its no longer in your head. 2. In time if you re-read it you can measure your progression with life. If you do write down your thoughts, distribute your notes in a way that grabs peoples attention. Leave a note in mums handbag on. dads car seat .... in the fridge., the oven, on the kettlle...anywhere it will be picked up. That moment will stop the reader in their tracks..you then have captive audience...so use this moment wisely...describe your feelings, express your fears, reach out for the offer of help and support... Loved ones don't mean to walk aimlessly past your life ...acting uninterested or oblivious to your plight.......they are just unfamiliar with the concept that their kin wouldn,t just ask for help. Family life is wonder full, but we often take are eye off, what stares us in the face...a gentle subtle prompt is often required to refouccus our connection, and if that does not happen....not everyone can read the cues. I wish you the best.... TAKE TIME TO TALK.......
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09-06-2015, 03:24 PM | #2 | |||
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I have missed your wisdom dear man. Great advice, as always.
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09-08-2015, 10:28 AM | #3 | ||
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Hi again everyone,
Just to keep you guys updated, still doing the same. I'm going to a new doctor today, who was paralyzed from the waste down in a scuba diving accident, and was able to walk again using acu- pressure and crossinology. I'm 15, so I barely understand what this guy does, but he is brilliant, and is a medical doctor and has studied neurology. Apparently everyone who goes to him gets the answers they need with any medical issue that they have. Praying he can find out whats wrong with me. And get me the help I need. I've had blood tests, mri scans of my brain, and everything you can think of. Every doctor I go to says I'm normal. But I'm not. |
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09-08-2015, 01:45 PM | #4 | |||
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brave young man you Are this is even more reason WHY you must be heard to make someone anyone it must be you cannot give into this terrible experience you are going through you are also at an age when many physical but more importantly mentally as your hormones are taking over your body and mind believe it or not you may want to do a little homework on the subject yours might be working differently than the normal balance we need you will be very surprised to learn how hormones not working correctly can throw a person into depression you keep coming but do not stop looking for that one someone i had it tough as a kid and isolated it came out in later years and i had to deal with it i truly turned to God and made a deal with him you are stronger than you know i have Faith in You love me
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09-08-2015, 02:16 PM | #5 | |||
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Everyone has their fingers crossed for you Sam...
Good luck!
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09-08-2015, 05:23 PM | #6 | ||
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Crying very hard right now,
Doctors visit went semi well. He still thinks I have an issue with my Thyroid which can be causing this dream fealing, which is great.. But the only problem is... That he needs to find the right person to take the thyroid hormone test for me. A standard blood test won't show this thyroid issue. Cause it has to do with my iodine levels he said. So you just be saying, this is great Sam! All you have to do is wait for the test, if it comes back that you have a problem, you can treat it! However, school starts tomorrow. And I'm EXTERMELY terrified. To start school again with this awful feeling. I BARELY made it by last year. |
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09-08-2015, 05:44 PM | #7 | ||
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Hey Sam, I'm sorry you feel terrified about going back tomorrow. I figured you would and that's totally understandable considering how you've been feeling and that you've been away on break for a while and not doing well during that time.
There's probably nothing I can say to make it any easier for you, but do try to remember though that you have a plan of sorts in place and you can go to the school nurse if it all becomes too overwhelming. If you can keep busy today/tonight as much as possible so that you're not overthinking about tomorrow then that may help a little. You're not alone in facing tomorrow. It's not a brick wall even though it might feel that way now. It's actually a flexible environment you are going back to and the school is there to help you. You have your family and the school personnel who are aware of what has been happening for you. It may be really helpful if you could contact one or more of your friends and maybe travel to school with them. All those people are all there to support you in this transition back to school. Even though you don't feel that way now, you can get through this tomorrow. It will be busy and it will be noisy. All of those things you fear. However, if you find yourself feeling overwhelmed then you go to the nurse's office as planned. What concerns me the most is that I get the feeling that you seem to think of yourself as facing this alone and you really are not alone Sam. This is not something you have to do alone. You have the support behind you and that can get you through. You may find it really difficult, but you can do it despite that. thinking of you |
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