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Old 12-25-2008, 03:07 AM #351
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I love you too mistiis! And yes they have these neat chairs that fold down into beds. I am right beside her now, and her breathing is so much easier now too. I am scared still, she is my Mom! But, I have this overwhelming feeling that she will be coming home again. I am going to hold on to that
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...sounds like she needed the fluids...and she probably did have some messed up electrolytes, and possibly, blood sugar too. Peaceful is good Nikki....and I hope you are feeling a bit more peaceful yourself...
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Yes, hope is essential....
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I can't tell you how peaceful I DO feel at this time. Instead of being torn up as I thought I would be over Dad, I am just so thankful and happy and and and everything that she is still here with me
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There is Christmas music playing in the lobby, and I was humming right along with it. I SAID Merry Christmas to people passing in the hall, and I found I truly meant it !
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Yes, it does help one to re-focus a bit. When my dad died, instead of being grateful that I still had my mom, I got angry with God for not saving him. But, I have changed my attitude, but it took me many years to do that.
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Yes, it does help one to re-focus a bit. When my dad died, instead of being grateful that I still had my mom, I got angry with God for not saving him. But, I have changed my attitude, but it took me many years to do that.
I WAS doing the same thing. Never again. I still showed her love of course, but not as much as I showed my grief over Dad. I learned a valuable lesson and I will never forget it
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That is a nice Christmas present...to have her alive, and more comfortable.
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WOW I feel sooo much better talking to you! Huge load lifted off my shoulders. Thank you
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It is the best gift I have ever received!!
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