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who moi 09-15-2008 12:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doody (Post 368817)
I wonder that sometimes people really need to get away...for whatever reasons, and that should be respected.

Because...I wonder that if/when they 'lurk' to keep up on the goings on, and see that people keep posting about their absence, do they feel guilty...like they've done something wrong? Possibly.

I wonder that wasn't my intention when I was mentioning names, I was just speaking from a general perspective on how I feel when I see someone's name, lurking or not...

I wonder if I understand the need to get away and the need to lurk and that no pressure was applied...it was simply a grateful post of seeing names around....

I wonder that my pdoc appt went well. I really like him. :)

(((((:grouphug:))))))

tovaxin_lab_rat 09-15-2008 12:54 PM

Just stopping by to say hello! I am in London tonight! How is everyone doing?!!! :hug:

Doody 09-15-2008 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by who moi (Post 368853)
I wonder that wasn't my intention when I was mentioning names, I was just speaking from a general perspective on how I feel when I see someone's name, lurking or not...

I wonder if I understand the need to get away and the need to lurk and that no pressure was applied...it was simply a grateful post of seeing names around....

I wonder that my pdoc appt went well. I really like him. :)

(((((:grouphug:))))))

I wonder if ((Moi)) understands I know that was not his intention in this thread. I'm a dingaling but not stoopid. Written words, what they can do...

I wonder that I'm very glad that the pdoc appt went well. It helps to like your therapist.

I wonder if ((mystiic)) knows that I understand her concerns about 'world peace'. And I wonder if she knows that we're all affected by those concerns and to please not feel alone in her thinking.

I wonder at all the people here who are fragile to one degree or another and that the written word can be taken so very many ways.

Doody 09-15-2008 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Av8rgirl (Post 368875)
Just stopping by to say hello! I am in London tonight! How is everyone doing?!!! :hug:

I wonder if you could tell Piccadilly Circus and Trafalgar Square hello for me. Oh, and the pigeons at the fountain near the royal palace. And oh, take a ride on the tube for me too.

I wonder if BMW will know that the lights are ready to be shut down?

who moi 09-15-2008 02:39 PM

I wonder that I was pretty emotional after my pdoc appt and that I also was in a rush to go and that I am a very very not good reader...

wonder if doody knows that I understand about misunderstandings and that I misunderstood and I am going to say that I did and *thumps to moi head...

wonder that we all are just too much in the low point right now and that it's good to lift eachother up...

((((((((((((everybody)))))))))))))

wonder if Av8rgil is having a great time! :D

Nik-key 09-15-2008 02:54 PM

I wonder how great it was to see Flygirl, hope you are having a fantastic time! :hug:

I wonder if I can say I respect and agree with ((Doody)) that everyone
wants or needs breaks from time to time. Many of us have even told you all
we did. There are many reasons for wanting to take a break..

I wonder if along that line, I also think when someone mentions others names
when they are on said break it is not to make them feel "guilty", but to
remember them, and let them know they are on our minds. I truly DO miss
them, what a shame if I didn't let them know that:hug:

I do agree the written words can be misconstrued. It is hard when you can't
hear the infliction in ones voice, see the expression on their face. But, that is
what's great about a conversation, even in writing... it can clear up any
misunderstandings. As for me, yep, I am fragile at the moment.. but, I just
take for granted that no one here would ever intentionally try to hurt me
:hug::hug:

I wonder how after I read Moi's post.. I got to thinking of that story DMACK
wrote about all of us. That was really good! Going to have to go look for it
so I can read it again!:D

I wonder how relieved I was to hear Moi's appointment went so well today
:hug: Must be a huge relief for you. I am glad you made a connection with
him and liked him to boot! No small feat... keep me posted ((MOI))

I wonder how goofy and her family are, keeping you all in my thoughts
and prayers:hug:

I wonder .......... Hugs for the room :hug: :hug:

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Nik-key 09-15-2008 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doody (Post 368817)
I wonder that for awhile now I've felt like I'm standing on an edge and my brain wants me to jump and say, oh to he!! with it all.

I wonder that...even though I'm only 59, I'm tired and don't want to do it anymore. I'd like to sleep for awhile and wake up to a new life or...none at all. But, wait until tomorrow, that might change.

((Doody)) I wonder if I can express that I understand the feeling well,
and am sorry you are feeling this way today. I wonder if some extra
hugs would help? :hug::hug:

I wonder if I can tell Doody, I too am a pogo member :D

Doody 09-15-2008 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nik-key (Post 368975)
(...I wonder if I can tell Doody, I too am a pogo member :D

:yikes:

So is ducky. :winky:

And thanks. :hug:

Nik-key 09-15-2008 05:44 PM

I wonder at how down I was last night .... scary

I wonder at how hard I had to struggle with myself ..
will myself ..to stop thinking of the bad, and concentrate
instead on what I do still have. Today, I decided.. was
going to be a good day after all!

I wonder that I didn't have to look too hard to find joy
in my life. That on this blustery September day, I was
able to coax Lynn out of bed, to come outside and
enjoy a picnic with me.

I wonder that my convictions are once again as strong
as ever, that I will not waste one moment we have
together. I wonder if my Dad is proud that I was able
to set aside my grief over his loss... to enjoy today.

I wonder how it continually amazes me how we all seem
to be able to put our own pain aside to help our friends here.
((BMW)) thinking of you Angel friend:hug:

I wonder if I can shut the lights out on this wonder thread
for our ((BMW)).... But leave a healing candle burning....

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