Wow Kay,

You put up with a lot, and I'm glad it came to an end.


*hiding my glass of icecubes behind my back*

aw, honey!

the chewing isn't a problem, really, I usually wouldn't mind, but I was doing the fine work (plucking pinfeathers takes concentration) and I guess I was annoyed because she helped with the easy part, and then took cig breaks, and crunchy-crunched right next to me... for like, twenty minutes.

a little bit of follow-up, for all of you concerned folks at NT...

my erstwhile houseguest finally emailed me...

I've been worried because she completely dropped off the radar, and nobody's heard from her among our circle of mutual friends.

anyway, the gist of the email is, she's gotten some HELP, medical, counseling, and antidepressants.

I'll be praying for her, and hoping the meds and therapy work.

y'all are welcome to pitch in with prayers as well.



and youse guyse ??

thank you very much for all your support for ME...

I couldn't've been NEARLY as helpful to my friend-in-need, without you all backstopping and supporting ME in turn.

You'll reap your reward someday for all you did for her, Kay.

Sometimes I think we're being tested....just to see what we're made of. Who knows....maybe one day when you least expect it she'll come into a windfall and think of you first when she's trying to decide how to
spend it!! ***yeah, right!!

You'll reap rewards just for the goodness and kindness (and oddity ) that you share with this board.

I'm glad your friend is okay! Smart lady to do what she is doing.

ah, Kell...

I think it only counts if you help unstintingly, and I *was* getting resentful towards the end, heaven help me.

honestly, I'd have to label it as a wee bit snappish.

Mother Theresa I ain't.



Doody, are you saying I'm ODD or something?

You still put up with a lot for longer than humanly possible. You're a good friend. I'm glad you finally laid down the law and that your friend is finally getting much needed help.

especially the ice cubes.

I think your getting resentful and snappish is what spured her on to get the help she needs. She obviously values your opinion and your friendship. You gave her a good reason to try something new. Now stop trying to minimize what you have done for her...you're a good friend and we love you for it.

What Alffe said!