Based on Doxie's thread, I was thinking maybe we could start a list of things we have learned not to "spend" spoons on. I'm sure everyone's list would be different and maybe we could learn how to be smarter spoon spenders by comparing notes.

umm...umm... thinking what to start with. I have learned the hard way to make a lot of accomodations to be able to function, so I will just need to decide which ones to post.

1. Splurge (if you must think of that way) on having the right tools for any and all jobs & activities. Saves stress on your body and is safer, too.
Examples:
Have a nice sturdy little step stool in most rooms, so you are not reaching farther than you should.

When doing chores such as raking or painting or repairing things, always use any devices that will make the task easier.

Have a very coomfortable, ergo chair for computer use and paper work.

2. Think outside of the box when it comes to scheduling appts and activities. Examples include physicals, fasting labs, etc.) Yes, I know the office will try to get you to schedule for their convenience. I just tell them, "I don't think you want to see what I look like and sound like in the morning! You will wish I had waited until afternoon when I fely better.)

Holidays and special celebrations can be on a flexible schedule. Celebrate when you can-not when the calendar dictates. We try to celebrate things early, rather than late. It feels less like you are missing out that way.

3. Think about how many spoons it takes to be around some family members and friends. Is it worth it? If so, great. If not, edit your exposure to them. If some people are easy to be around and even seem to add spoons to your cup-see them more.

4. Rethink family patterns. (Remember the story abt the woman cutting the end of her roast off before she put it in the pan?) We can learn a new way to do things-a way that works for us. If your family always kept the PB in the fridge, discover how much easier it is to spread peanut butter if it is room temperature. Rags don't need to be folded-just toss them in a drawer or container. Vacuuming your cat and dog is easier than cleaning up pet hair in zillions of crevices and corners. Throw coupons away without feeling guilty.
Quit doing (choosing, shopping, wrapping, delivering) presents for so many people. Stick to a select few and send money-usually more appreciated anyway.