for those that remember, he is in a bad relationship with a woman that is quite clearly verbally and emotionally abusive. The last time they fell apart she burned all of his stuff in a back yard bonfire with her new b/f. After new b/f got aggressive and left her holding the bag for a bunch of bills, she called DS and begged his forgiveness. He is so stuck on her, and he went roaming back full of hope and love.

She announced yesterday as he handed her a diamond pendant that "I dont want to celebrate Valentines day anymore with you. If I loved you I would, but since I dont, keep your cheap knock off" What she didnt know was that its real. So, after losing yet another job because she calls 40xs a day to see if he is working with another woman, he is devestated. I havent seen him in months because she has made it clear that he isnt allowed to see his family because we are all stupid and out to get her.

I want so badly for this bright, wonderful young man to wake up and understand that no matter what he does, nor how he does it, nor how fast he does it, she isnt going to love him. I have asked him to just stay here for a while and get his head on.

Say a little prayer for this young man. I hope this is the day he picks himself up and decides he wants better. Why do we allow others to behave so badly in the name of love? How is it that we can someone we want to love us to cut us to shreds?

Happy Valentines day! At least he is free for now.