The Stumble Inn The place for social chat for our M.S. community. The Stumble Inn


advertisement
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 05-10-2008, 01:10 PM #1
Chris's Avatar
Chris Chris is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Chris Chris is offline
Member
Chris's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Default Where did my money go?

I just returned from the grocer and spent over $175.00 on NOTHING! We just finished unpacking and putting everything away, and my husband said to me, that there doesn't seem to be anything to eat in the house, and he's correct. I didn't buy anything substantial like fish or chicken. We don't eat junk food. I bought some produce and dairy products that I take to work for lunch and a few cleaning supplies. Now, we've got to go back out to Costco to get FOOD (real food). I don't understand how families of more than 4 can make it anymore. We're just 2 people who eat 3 healthy meals a day, and our grocer's bill has gone up by at least 40% in the last year! Is it just around here, or is everyone noticing this?

What are you doing to cope? I thought at one time that I might be able to stop working soon, but I can't. We simply can't afford it!
__________________
"I didn't know he was dead; I thought he was British"
Woody Allen

.
Chris is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Blessings2You (05-10-2008), Jappy (05-12-2008), whispers (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 01:47 PM #2
Victor H Victor H is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 1,090
15 yr Member
Victor H Victor H is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 1,090
15 yr Member
Default

Chris,

There is a system developed by local farmers in many parts of the US called "Local Harvest". This is a system of local farmers (all organic) who sell their harvest directly to families and avoid marketing to grocery stores.

Each week, if you join Local Harvest, you will get a huge box of fresh vegetables and fruit. The boxes contain more than enough for a family of 4 to last at least one week. The cost is so much cheaper than going to the grocery store.

Take a look at their website: localharvest.org

Maybe it will be helpful to you.

-Vic
Victor H is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
AfterMyNap (05-10-2008), Blessings2You (05-10-2008), Chris (05-10-2008), DM (05-11-2008), Kitty (05-10-2008), MSacorn (05-14-2008), Natalie8 (05-13-2008), SallyC (05-10-2008), SandyC (05-10-2008), tamiloo (05-10-2008), woodhaven (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 02:18 PM #3
whispers whispers is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: USA
Posts: 278
15 yr Member
whispers whispers is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: USA
Posts: 278
15 yr Member
Default

It is a bit frightening! It used to be 'when you break a twenty, it is gone'. Now, it is 'when you break a check, it is gone!' Cleaning products, detergents are extremely expensive. Maybe we should just clean with water...I have eliminated all the products that cause me to gag and exchanged for others that I am not allergic to.

Victor's contribution about localharvest.org is terrific! I am going to try. I clicked 'thanks', Victor, but nothing appeared! I must have lost my touch!...
whispers is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Victor H (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 03:06 PM #4
SandyC's Avatar
SandyC SandyC is offline
Wise Elder
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 9,227
15 yr Member
SandyC SandyC is offline
Wise Elder
SandyC's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 9,227
15 yr Member
Default

I hear you loud and clear! My grocery bill the other day, I kid you not, $397.00!!! I only bought what we needed. The only non grocery items were cleaning supplies and a few outside plants. I was sick to my stomach. The boys come home next week and I don't know what we're going to do with four to feed.
__________________
. . A woman is like a tea bag. You never know how strong she is until she's in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
SandyC is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Chris (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 03:11 PM #5
Chris's Avatar
Chris Chris is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Chris Chris is offline
Member
Chris's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by SandyC View Post
I hear you loud and clear! My grocery bill the other day, I kid you not, $397.00!!! I only bought what we needed. The only non grocery items were cleaning supplies and a few outside plants. I was sick to my stomach. The boys come home next week and I don't know what we're going to do with four to feed.
Oh Sandy,
I can't even begin to fathom what it is like. Do your boys work during the summers? Do they contribute to some of the household expenses? I know that we paid close to $400.00 here last summer during the summer months just to air condition our home. One can't live in the south without air-conditioning, especially having MS! I'm sure it's not much cheaper where you are. Are you still sure you want to move to Tenn. in the near future?
__________________
"I didn't know he was dead; I thought he was British"
Woody Allen

.
Chris is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
SandyC (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 03:26 PM #6
lady_express_44's Avatar
lady_express_44 lady_express_44 is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Posts: 3,300
15 yr Member
lady_express_44 lady_express_44 is offline
Grand Magnate
lady_express_44's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Posts: 3,300
15 yr Member
Default

I think we've been paying quite a bit more in Canada for a number of years (we used to cross the border to the US just to pick up cheese, dairy, etc. and save ourselves heaps). Now with the Canadian $ so strong, it might be even more worth it, but crossing the border is such a hassle since 9/11.

I have 4 mouths to feed, two of those being active teenagers, and I have to be very careful about how I spend my disability cheques. In fact, I rent out my basement, just to make ends meet.

When it comes to shopping, I bulk-shop for most things, and I flyer shop all the time. I read each of the flyers delivered every week, and I list out what I need from each place. They are only a few blocks either way (I am in the city) so I don't waste much gas/travel, but it does take time. I almost NEVER buy anything, unless it is on sale.

Most stores around here will honor the sale prices of other stores too, if you can be bothered to haul around the flyers and go get the refund at customer service. I'd just as soon go to the "other" store to get the sale price, because I usually have lots to buy at each store anyway. (I only like certain brands, and many stores carry their own generic that I won't always buy...)

I find I actually waste too much money, when buying from a place like Costco. I go in to buy 5 things and walk out with a buggy full worth $300 every time. Often a lot goes to waste too, cause it gets stale or goes off before we get around to eating the quantities a person has to buy from there. There are good deals for sure, but I'm too impulsive if I go into a store like that.

Cleaning supplies, bandaids, toilet paper, shampoo, tissues, etc . . . I definitely bulk shop on. Not that I buy bigger quantities, but I wait for them to go on sale very cheap somewhere, then buy the max limit.

Cherie
__________________
I am not a Neurologist, Physician, Nurse, or Hairdresser ... but I have learned that it is not such a great idea to give oneself a haircut after three margaritas
.
lady_express_44 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Chris (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 05:12 PM #7
SandyC's Avatar
SandyC SandyC is offline
Wise Elder
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 9,227
15 yr Member
SandyC SandyC is offline
Wise Elder
SandyC's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 9,227
15 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chris View Post
Oh Sandy,
I can't even begin to fathom what it is like. Do your boys work during the summers? Do they contribute to some of the household expenses? I know that we paid close to $400.00 here last summer during the summer months just to air condition our home. One can't live in the south without air-conditioning, especially having MS! I'm sure it's not much cheaper where you are. Are you still sure you want to move to Tenn. in the near future?
Yes, we are still moving. It can't be any worse than me and menopause! lmao

It's about the same cost economy wise no matter where we go. The houses are definately cheaper in the rural areas.

I told the boys we will buy groceries but if there is something special they want, it's on them. Plus, if I start to notice things being emptied out faster than you can blink an eye, then yes, they will be asked to contribute. We've already had "the talk' with them. LOL I would prefer them to save their money since they ask for nothing while they are at college. They pay their own way all school year so we help out in the summer and they save.
__________________
. . A woman is like a tea bag. You never know how strong she is until she's in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
SandyC is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 05-10-2008, 03:06 PM #8
Chris's Avatar
Chris Chris is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Chris Chris is offline
Member
Chris's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Victor H View Post
Chris,

There is a system developed by local farmers in many parts of the US called "Local Harvest". This is a system of local farmers (all organic) who sell their harvest directly to families and avoid marketing to grocery stores.

Each week, if you join Local Harvest, you will get a huge box of fresh vegetables and fruit. The boxes contain more than enough for a family of 4 to last at least one week. The cost is so much cheaper than going to the grocery store.

Take a look at their website: localharvest.org

Maybe it will be helpful to you.

-Vic
Thank you Vic. I just checked out the website, and for someone living in California, I'm sure it's a very economical way of buying fresh fruits and vegetables. I just priced 6 avocados, and it would cost $23.00 by the time they are shipped here and taxes are assesed. That is even more outrageous than what I just paid for avocados here this morning. I suppose the price of fuel is what is raising the cost of shipping food, but I still can not comprehend how a family of 4 can live and eat well if only one parent is working. I believe it is only going to get worse in the next few months, and I'm truly frightened for people, especially the elderly and those who are on a fixed income.
__________________
"I didn't know he was dead; I thought he was British"
Woody Allen

.
Chris is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
SandyC (05-10-2008), Victor H (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 03:11 PM #9
Curious Curious is offline
Yappiest Elder Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Texas
Posts: 13,418
15 yr Member
Curious Curious is offline
Yappiest Elder Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Texas
Posts: 13,418
15 yr Member
Default

try this chris:

http://www.localharvest.org/csa/

just put in your zip code.

i found one very close to me.
__________________

.
Curious is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Chris (05-10-2008), Victor H (05-10-2008)
Old 05-10-2008, 03:16 PM #10
Chris's Avatar
Chris Chris is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Chris Chris is offline
Member
Chris's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Georgia
Posts: 975
15 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Curious View Post
try this chris:

http://www.localharvest.org/csa/

just put in your zip code.

i found one very close to me.
No-nothing. We live in a rather urban area, so we'd have to travel at least an hour each way to get to the closest place, or have it shipped. So, again the savings are lost on gas or in the shipping. There is also a very high state sales tax in GA., which adds to the high cost of food. I believe it is 7% in our county.
__________________
"I didn't know he was dead; I thought he was British"
Woody Allen

.
Chris is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Money paula_w Parkinson's Disease 14 03-31-2008 06:09 PM
NIH money paula_w Parkinson's Disease 1 09-19-2007 11:16 PM
wasted money! ~KELLWANTSANSWERS~ Spinal Disorders & Back Pain 3 12-11-2006 05:06 AM


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 04:36 PM.

Powered by vBulletin • Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

vBulletin Optimisation provided by vB Optimise v2.7.1 (Lite) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2024 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
 

NeuroTalk Forums

Helping support those with neurological and related conditions.

 

The material on this site is for informational purposes only,
and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment
provided by a qualified health care provider.


Always consult your doctor before trying anything you read here.