Today marks the 7 year anniversary of my DH's passing. I don't get as emotional as I used to....which makes me sort of sad. I feel like I ought to be weepy and I'm not. I guess that's just a sign that I'm moving in the right direction. I tend to remember Tim with a smile now and not the tears that came with the first several anniversaries. It's not that I don't miss him...I will always miss him and the life that we could have had together. But, I am a firm believer that I will see him again. So, this anniversary has not been so bad - I put a flower on the crypt each year (a silk flower) and bring home the one I left the last year if it's still there. I think he would be proud of me.