Tough week, I am still fighting things with legal issues. This week the ex, has accused me of negligence in my dd care; that I abused her and my parenting skills for her needs were abusive, down to the medication.

My attorney wants me to find anyone I can to contridict this accusation. I quess when these people are the scum of the earth, the best they can do is try to discredit me.

My blood pressure is up, my chest pains worse, and I cry all the time missing her; NOW this hurtful accusation. He and the enabler he is married to don't want to stop at me losing my home from litigation, or another child from denying their medical care, they want me to lose my health or life....
They never wanted one iota to do with her, to help, to care for her, call or visit but boy greed and blood money.

We were just beginning to heal, to create new memories last year. It was the time to heal and build new memories and get the health care we needed.

I hurt my low back, cleaning out her home, real bad, I have so much pain.It has to be done for my son and grandson to have a nice home now.

My son took a fall trying to help me and fell on his face, he was knocked out; head and side took the impact, so much pain in his back, and no insurance.
He hurt his wrist but back pain is what it typically is, thank heaven. We both spoke of the home being cursed......

If I had the money, now in litigation, I would have helped with the downpayment for a home, it is in escrow until a court rules....

We would not have to worry about the home being brought up to perfect so his ex would not make another call to the abuse line with numerous unfounded alligations.
Now a lack of funds to pay anyone for the repairs and fixes, our three disabled people are trying to do what we can....

Why is it the kindest people in life are attacked and taken advantage of....

I have two choices get a set of ba!!s back, or crawl in a corner and have a heart attack. I will not fall apart, but I do want him to hurt, and lose and then get all my cost back....and LIFE.

I love my family and I thought that honesty and truth prevailed, that the legal things win from truth.........I WILL NOT LET THAT ESCREMENT HURT MY FAMILY ANYMORE> MY ATTORNEY IS TOPS AND WE WILL TAKE THESE PEOPLE DOWN AND I WILL FILE FRAUD!

I don't know where to start to find the people in our life that knew what kind of person as a parent I am. My immediate family, the doctors, her attorney, ?????I need a list, and then try to contact them. DH said all I had to do was hit the send mail for all the organizations that I belong to that walked life with me and I would not have a room big enough to hold them all.

I just wish all this would not be real and I could hold her.
The ex's last words to our son when he confronted his father to why he is doing this....were get the he@@ out, and never come back again.
He is also disabled with seizures and cardiac, I take 100% care if him, but his pocket money working 2@4 hrs a week.......
Anyone have a voodoo doll?
A heartbroken mom......
PS to you know who, go ahead and print it all....its true. Your attorney already has the information.....

(((((((((((Di))))))))))))))

if your cyberfriends could testify for you, you would have an army of witnesses!

I am so sorry you are having to endure more heartache. I hope justice will be done and a ruling in your favor.

My prayers remain lifted for you

I should ask those that have been here with us and stayed to write a note and have it noterized.

Just the post of people that have known me can help reinforce my fellings that I did all I could do for her and am not an abusive person or ever neglect her. They never walked a DAY in my shoes. My feelings are so hurt because it is even being a theory on their part.

The low life stalks me on the forum, let him read how people on here. we care for each other.
I had friends that responded to De's online condolance book from around the world.
MY FRIENDS WITHOUT FACES.....

But my heart still pains that someone that could not take the time to know her birthday would pull this stunt!He had a legal chance to assist and wanted nothing to do with any part of her estate.

I can not ever remember hurting anyone.
Even as a police officer the bad guys thought I was tough but FAIR>

I have such a huge hole in my heart and not a day goes by without a tear....
All he wants to do is remodel his bar, he put in his wifes name as he is on SSDI.

I have to create this list asap and pick an arbitrator.


IF anyone would like to PM support note to me and would not mind me creating a forum folder to print, even an atta girl of support, it would mean so much to me....and would be anonymous as your choice. [/I] I will block user name so they can not search anyone out. Intials and state maybe if you like,.

I am having my email friends send anything if they wish also.
I think I will even have his attorney take the stand to my character as he knows me personally professionally!

BUT DO THEY SCARE ME WITH THIS, NOT!!!! Make my Heartache YES!!!!! Where was he for 29 years??????[/B]