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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: New Zealand
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 317
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Hi, Hockey - I try to not say anything as I have learnt that I don't have a lot of control over what I say once I start - so I just don't start. Though I must admit that I don't practice that enough with my poor husband! I think that he knows that my brain is behind most of the tactless things that come out of it!
Unfortunately it also means that when I should really speak up I don't.
Sometimes I also take the approach that I am going to chose not to waste my energy on this by saying whatever! Hope you know what I mean. When my children were little and somebody had said or done something to upset them and they cried I remember saying to them that it was a waste of energy and tears crying about whatever it was and they would smile and agree.
Hope this helps - also children are a lot more understanding that you give them credit for - and alot more forgiving that adults are!
Lynlee
By the way - most of us posting on here have more understanding through our own research than the specialisst that we see - some of them are down right dangerous and have no idea of the damage they can cause due to their lack of knowledge.
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