The video that helped me the most was titled "Borrowed Brain". I think it was written/made by a CNN or Fox News reporter that was in a mva. I passed it on to all of my friends to help them understand. Google it.

All of us on this board understand. It's a longgggg road to healing for many of us.
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ALSO, get your husband educated and on your side fast!

My husband is a salesman. I am often expected to entertain clients and go to events and be the perfect wife. In the beginning my husband didn't understand why that wasn't working. His comments were very hurtful. He told me I talked like a teenager. Seven months later he gets it. You need him to help you. It took my husband six months to understand that going to the grocery store made me very sick. Now he goes.

Find a friend, doctor, or family member to help him understand how complicated this problem really is. My husband still slips up and says hurtful things and I call him on it. I tell him that I need his support and that a sarcastic comment is very hurtful.

Su seb