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Dear BJ
i hope you can get some sleep. some good sleep. :hug::Zzzz::hug::Zzzz::hug::Zzzz::hug: ~ waves ~ |
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Have you ever done any art or music therapy? Those kinds of therapies do not require you to come up with words to express what is happening. If you don't have a professional therapist, maybe art would be helpful even by yourself. M. |
BJ
We all love ya. And hope you will keep checking in with us. As everyone says we all miss you when you don't come around. So do a check around to let us know your here once in a while. We want to know your okay. And we love you. Donna:grouphug: |
Yes we do love you and want to know how you are.
even if you're not okay. it's okay not to be okay around here! ;) :hug: 'member that book, "I'm OK, You're OK?" i keep thinking someday i'll write a spoof sequel: "I'm not OK! And neither are you by golly! (and that's not OK... but it's OK.)" or something like that. :D BJ, are you still able to work on your garden at all? working with hands and in touch with nature can be therapeutic... grounding. art too. and if you aren't big on art... as a "formal" hobby it can be expensive too... consider pencil drawing, or just doodling, or using crayons. (i've actually done some pretty cool "crayon paintings"). ~ waves ~ |
Dear BJ,
Or get some Play-Doh and work with clay. It could be healing on some levels. M. |
BJ
Are you doing ok? I hope that today went better for you. I know how isolation feels. When I sit down neer someone,and unconsciously lean my body away from them. I don't know why I do that.
I guess that I'm very uncomfortable around groups of people,and feel like I could be harmed. I did have bullies hit me though,when I was in school. This has had a impact on my adult life. I guess that I need to keep forgiving them. This can ease the bad memory a bit. BF:hug::hug::hug: |
I feel very isolated in my life. I tend to feel or think so many negative thoughts. I've felt let down by so many people in my life. I feel that my expectations of others are probably too high and I take let-downs so personally. I could never ever let people down the way they have let me down, and I feel like my whole life has been like this.
I know now, that if anything serious ever happened to me again, I have no one to count on. I feel so isolated. I feel angry a lot of the time and resentful. I tend to wonder why I have been given this life, why I seem to treat others fairly and get punished for it. Inside I'm so eaten up with so many grievances, that life has dealt me a bitter blow and a lonely one. I wonder where my life is going. I just hope that people understand where I'm coming from. It's not my doing. I'm not well. |
Dear BJ,
Thank you for checking in with us. I am so very sorry that you are feeling isolated...that must be very lonely... we are always here to support you ...and you know that the sos is ALWAYS there to offer you support, ALWAYS!!!! Please post there too.... Everyone on these boards is worried about you and we want to help you. I am wondering if you still have a therapist to work with? Where are you in your cancer treatments? how is hooper girl? Hugs to you tonight. (((((((((((HUGS)))))))):hug::grouphug::hug: love bizi |
Dear BJ, :hug: :hug: :hug:
I'm sorry to hear how isolated and sad you sound. I wish that you felt better. Do you have a tdoc? Do you still see people at church? You do have people. They cannot fully understand the hurt that you have, but they can help. M. |
Dear BJ
Hugs,and more (((((((Hugs))))))) to you. I understand. (((:hug::hug::hug:)))
Hang in there. BF:hug::grouphug::hug: |
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