((((( BJ ))))))

so good to see a post from you. so good. i am sorry though about your situation. i have some thoughts on some of your observations... when i am able to put them into words, i'll come back and post.

for now i hope you will accept some hugs :hug::hug::hug: and good thoughts from me :circlelove:.

i will be back and i hope to see you back too.

~ waves ~

BJ

As a couple have said, we are always here to listen, be supportive
and give hugs. None of us can know what you are going through.

And I personally wish I was there closer to help you. And be the
supportive person you need daily.

Donna:grouphug:

Bj i think it is healthy to feel so angry and to question why all this has happened to you. the feelings were probably always there and now that they are surfacing they will start losing their power.
i don't know how but your next direction should be on trying to spend all your energy on loving yourself and nurturing yourself. It is so painful to feel isolated and hopeless but there is always hope. There are nice people out there but just hard to find them. Most people are so self involved these days including me just trying to survive. Do you even know what you want from people....maybe a warm hug and reassurance. You are such a kind and wonderful person and your goodness shows through. you will eventually attract some caring people and have a mutual relationship. right now i am happy for you that you are in touch with your anger. I really think it is a sign of health.
fondly
bobby

It has been since november since we have last heard from bj....has anyone "seen" her?
I hope she is doing well.
a quick hello...if she is reading here.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))) )))))
to you dear girlie.
bizi

I was wondering the same thing. I don't think that I have heard from her in about a year. I still think about her from time to time,and wonder how shes doing.

Hi BJ if you still read the posts. I'm sending big hugs to you. BF:hug::grouphug::hug::grouphug::hug:

she is one special person
bobby

I always have her in my thoughts.... I was about to ask about her.

(((((BJ))))

Dear BJ

i spoke of you to someone just the other day... your struggle with cancer.... your mother's before you... i think about your losses, and yet what an exquisite person you are. i remember your pictures of your beautiful garden. i remember thinking the garden reflected your own inner beauty.

i think about you often too and i hope at some point you will be able to come back. or want to. i wonder if you feel somehow isolated from us in your mind.

we all miss you.

i know these things can take a long time ... my friend's dad went through chemo for melanoma.... it was a long and extenuating process and he suffered a great deal. he is well today as i hope one day you will be.

sending you many hugs :hug::hug::hug:

~ waves ~

I also have been thinking of BJ.

Hoping she is at least reading. And that if someone hears from her
they will let us know.

Donna:grouphug:

thinking about our bj today....
((((((HUGS))))))
if you are reading...wish you would trust us again....
we are here for you.
bizi