Dear dear Bobbythat sucks. i hear you. i've done this more times than i can count. it is horrible. i haven't found a reliable way out of it yet.... :rolleyes:

all i can suggest is if you can manage to go against the grain of how you feel, and get up and do something... especially if you can manage to go to the center or to a neighbors and socialize with others that would get your mind off things for a while. even a break from obsessing is beneficial.

other than that if you can't get out, maybe reading or crosswords - anything that will engage your mind.

lots of love

~ waves ~

Hi Gerry
 

The emotions have settled. My anger at the other doc. has not. Why in heavens name if he didn't know what was wrong with me all these 7 years, didn't he send me to someone who could find out? He let me suffer and I don't understand why? This is so far beyond my comprehension, that I am indeed having a few anger issues.
I am tickled at finally getting some answers, but even this new doctor told me he didn't understand the other doctors lack of action. He just shook his head in disbelie This is negelgence(spelling) and out right malpractice. He also wanted this toe joint replaced....BAD as the failure rate is way too hight to justify doing it. So why was he wanting to do that? Gerry I am having some anger issues, and am serioulsy thinking about a lawyer. I have my records. what do you think? I have had 7 years of limping, and terrrible pain, for nothing. Am I wrong to feel so awful about this? :mad: ginnie

Hi Bobby
 

I care about you. My anger kept me in bed with the covers over my head for awhile too. I am sorry you are blue. wish I could help you. Just know that I think about you, and all of the situations we have to go through. ginnie:hug:

hugs for you today dear bobby.
love you, bizi:hug:

Bobby,

A million rental NYC units could be affected by the case. Advocates and lawyers and politicians are working hard on it. Perhaps let them do the worrying for you. Put it in their hands while you go on to other things.

M

Ginnie,
 

Too many doctors are just getting patients in an out asap. Not listening to what or caring what is happening to their patients. If this new social med comes in, it will not only be the Medicare/Medicade that the doctors are avoiding; but most of the country will be in the same type of program. We have the countries, Canada, Ireland, Britain to use as examples. Many cannot get in to see a doctor for months. More and more patient assistants, nurse practioners are starting to take place of doctors. It will get worse.

Three years ago, I had bladder prolapse surgery (cystocele). FDA sent warning to doctors about the use of mesh for women. FDA warned the mesh erodes in the vagina and has caused terrible problems and pain. Almost impossible to remove. My doctor, unfortuately, did not heed and I have mesh sling for bladder, mesh for closure of surgery as well. Wiithin weeks, legs swelled, statis dermtatis developed skin of feet, ankles to the knees. PN has gone off the map. My lower abdomen is in such pressure and pain. You know what this doctor told me. "Well you know you are getting older". referring to the swelling Edema. He could care less.

I should do something about LSI as well who just about mutulated my spine. Ginnie; it just goes on and on. Poor Eva is going thru so much because of incompetent medical care. It takes a lot to go thru legal issues. Unfortuately, I am just not up to it. If you can and are willing to find enough doctors who will verify in writing this doctor has been negligent, etc. you might have a case. Many doctors will say things about another doctor; but not willing to sign when it comes to legal action.

One thing, for me anyway, is to let go of some of the anger because it just made me even more distraught and sicker. I pray to overome this because it is I in the long run who pays the price for making myself sick over theses issues.

As always, praying for you.
(Ger)

lol-i started working on my taxes. i filed an extension but i probably can get them done by the seventeenth.i guess there is no magic formula. i spent most of the day in bed with the tv on. I started thinking of all the lucky things that have happened in my life. maybe i will squeaker by through this one. I am so sorry you have gone through this too. it really is the pits and thensome.
love
bobby

and you have to know I think about you too and all the problems you are facing and have faced. why does it happen.
fondly
bobby

love you too bizi and hugs to you
love
bobby

besides these rentals affected there are rent controls in 140 areas in the country that could be affected by the supreme court. I like your attitude.
bobby