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Old 12-22-2011, 06:31 PM #1
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For some reason, I had a rough day today; really missing my daughter today. I can't believe that she will be gone a year next month...
I'm sorry for your pain.

Grief comes in waves. everyone has their own times of healing, but even "objectively" speaking, a year and a month is a short time yet, for the kind of loss you and your husband went through. and holidays invariably cause these things to surface. my thoughts are with you at this time.

perhaps tomorrow will be better already. if not, perhaps you can do some activities or honor your daughter's memories to help you through the pain. i don't know if you would want to involve hubby. depends if you feel it would be more healing or more hurtful for him, considering his particular role in the events, and his current emotional state.

i hope you feel better soon. talk about it here if it helps.

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Dear Jacquie,

I'm sorry you are grieving.

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Keeping you in my heart Jacquie,
I know these days and the anniversary are difficult. Although the 4 years seperate our loss, it is nearly the same date. I am also adding your dh to my prayers for his strength to carry him through the holidays and loss day.
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I am sorry you are grieving. Holidays make it even more difficult. Even though I do not know you, I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Grief has passed though my doors too, it is never easy. peace to you and your husband. ginnie
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((((((Jacquie))))))

We are thinking about you and Andrea....

Keeping you in my prayers....

...she is among other beautiful angels like her in Heaven... protecting you, watching over you... smiling... shinning.... her energy will always be with you... in you... feel her soul.... talk to her... let her fill you with her happiness and peace... love... now you can smile too... be proud because she is your daughter and a pretty angel, that now, over there, can protect more people... and guide us...

Im so sorry for your loose, wish I could give you a strong hug....

Much much love for you and, we are here for anything you may need.
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Even though I do not know you, I want you to know I am sorry for your loss. The loss of a daughter is not something you ever really get over. The holidays make difficult also. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry your are grieving. ginnie
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I think they both said it well.

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