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Old 02-11-2012, 08:45 PM #11
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I mean, I really dont want to see my family NEVER again.... I will seriously talk to them next saturday and let them know Im so busy that they wont see me ever again, except in the nasty wedding of my cousin... (Im talking about my freaking aunts and cousins, not my parents by the way)
Dear Majo,

You do not have to tell them anything.Don't show up.

We will support you.

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Mayo

Were all here for when you need us. If you want to post on old threads
do its fine. Its good to hear from you.

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Old 02-11-2012, 10:28 PM #13
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I vote with Mari on this one. Don't go to the wedding.

I am sorry that your feeling so down.
You will feel better...hold on.
I wish your cells would cooperate.
thinking of you tonight.
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I vote with Mari, Bizi, DO NOT GO TO THE WEDDING!!!!


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Do not go next Saturday either.
Take care of NUMBER ONE -- that is you.

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don't attend, I agree. We have to surround ourselves with good vibes, and not those that bring us down. I wish you all the best. ginnie
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Thank you mt beautiful friends

You cant imagine how mad (or sad or both ?) Im towards my family....

They keep saying that everything I do, and my father and mother do is bad, pathetic, etc.... so, the other day, I didnt answered a call from my oldest cousin because she wanted me to explain her something about my career, which she has always insulted and said nasty things... and guess what ? To all the family, Im a rude ugly monster...

Thing is we used to go every saturday to drink coffee with my aunts, but I dont want to go back never again....
So, like you suggested, I wont show up...

About the wedding... *sigh*.... that is another cousin... and she asked me to be her ehm... to testify ? you know, I have to sign in the wedding... So I will attend the ceremony and then leave....

Still feeling crappy...

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About the wedding... *sigh*.... that is another cousin... and she asked me to be her ehm... to testify ? you know, I have to sign in the wedding...
So I will attend the ceremony and then leave....
Majo,
You are learning to take care of yourself.
Show up, sign as a witness, and then leave.

I am so proud of you.

These are good decisions. Do what works for you.
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Thank you lovely ladies !!

I hate the fact that tomorrow is monday... we have talked about this in the past, and also about the fact that people is so cruel...

I thought I had a "friend" in the lab next to mine, her name is Eva. She always ask me for little favors, like, using my equipment or, I give her some of my lab's reactives when she run out of these in her lab... and, I have asked her for some medium for my cells twice and the 2 times she has "forgot" to give it to me... She had me 3 hours waiting for her on friday, because she was going to give the tube to me... I saw here running out of the institute and I call her cell phone... she didnt reply and 5 hours later, she told me she had forgot the tube "somewhere"...

Im tired of this you know ?? I feel anger, but also, so disillusioned about her attitude and... oh well...
Is like, nobody would help me ever in that pathetic place...

And tomorrow I have to go back... and have class... and have to talk about an article...

Im so tired of this stress... Im so tired of this life...
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