I'm in shock even though I knew this was coming. I'm all alone tonight and have a feeling it's going to be a long night.

befuddled2

Dear Befuddled,

'Sending hugs

Find someone to be with tomorrow.

Mari

Are you okay BF? Were you there? Let us know how you're doing honey. Just remember he's in a better place now.

You're not alone.
You have us.

Mari

I'm so sorry, even though you knew...it's never easy to hear. ((Barbara))

Oh Barbara,
I am sorry.
know that you were a dear friend to him and that you also were a comfort in his final days.
It is very hard watching some one that you care about...he suffers no more.
(((((((hugs)))))))
bizi

I don't know what to say.

I really don't know what will give you comfort.

Hopefully, just knowing we are here will help get you through.

I am so sorry.

((((((Barbara)))))),

I'm so sorry I could tell it wouldn't be much longer when he started acting like he felt better.

I know you're gonna miss him like crazy. He turned out be a very special man and a very special friend, didn't he. He's opened you up to wonderful possibilities.

Take a deep breath and BREATHE and allow the tears to come. Pay attention to small signs of animals or plants acting weirdly, or more rainbows He'll let you know that he's gotten there safely.

You're surrounded by people that love and care about you and care about what happens to you, Barbara. Try not to shut yourself off in the corner.



I'll say a special prayer for Doug tonight (and for you, too, sugar). Try to keep yourself surrounded by friends and people that care. They'll make this whole 'thing' easier. Just remember, he's always-always in here ; you never have to give him up.

BIG HUGS (and love).

Barb

Barb

Sending you many thoughts and wishing I could be there to give you
a hug.

I'm here if you need me,

Sending as much love as I hold.

Donna