Dear Highthatsize,
I am glad that you knew her and shared love with such a beautiful person.
It breaks my heart that you won't have her to share your life with anymore.
Be good to yourself.

Mari

I'm glad your decidecd to post it was beautiful,as was you friendship.
Bless you,,,Sue

((((((highhatsize)))))),

I'm so sorry It seems so unfair ... doesn't it

I don't think your message is cold at all. And I certainly don't think it's "too soon". It brings joy to my heart to know that there was a special person like your friend out there for awhile bringing solace and comfort.. Mrs. Bear is right -- that's something to celebrate.

You were blessed to have someone like her in your life. I wish more than anything that you could have had her in your life for a lifetime.

I believe that people who have completed their work here get to move on to the next step sooner than the rest of us.

There's a saying or a belief that as long as someone speaks your name or has a memory of you that you continue on. It's impressively overwhelming to think of how many lives your friend has touched and how much good she's brought into this world.

You were lucky to have someone come into your life who brought love and light and happiness. I wish I could have that.

I'll say a quiet prayer for your friend tonight. I hope that you've got people in your real life that can hold you up and support you until you get to the place where the memories are stronger than the tears. You've certainly got that support and caring from all of us here.

Bless you. And bless the memory of your friend.

Barb

I too believe you need to leave your beautiful tribute to a beautiful
person. I have tears running down my face. See I can see this
person clearly. I know many that could, I know many that wish they
had a person just like this.

So please leave this beautiful tribute hear for more to read.

Hoping you continue to heal after your loss.

Donna

Dear High hat,
Oh this makes me sad for you....I can't imagine losing someone so special....
You sounded like you were a happy couple....
thank you for sharing some of your story with us.
I am sorry that this has happened....
sending extra hugs for you tonight.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

I hope that you are comforted in knowing that you are who you are today because you knew her.

She has given you a great gift.

That is why you are writing about it now... it isn't too soon... who's definition of too soon is correct... who is to know but you....

and something moved you to write... something inside of you

I think you may be on the path to discovering how to carry on her special legacy...

she is inside you and will be there when you need her.

I'm so so sorry for your loss.

and sorry we had to meet this way.
I'm Addy from the Survivors of Suicide forums and old MGH forums.

take care of yourself,

I too am so sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was a wonderful person.

Remember all the good times, grieve when you want to, there is no set rule.

She is with you in spirit and soul and always will be.

What you wrote was beautiful.

Nikko

dear HighHatSize,

i am so sad for you. i am honoured by your sharing your story. i read your post several times. do take your own time, and your own ways, to grieve. every loss is different. and this is so deep...

come here if you want to share more, or just for some company. take care of yourself.



~ waves ~