[Mari]

Hi,
Last summer my tdoc asked me to make a vision board to help with my fear of sleep.
She wanted me to put pictures having to do with sleep on a cork board so that I could get used to the idea of sleep being a good thing.

I found pictures on the Google Image search of a computer sleeping and a good line drawing of a girl sleeping in a beautiful bedroom. I also typed notes to myself and printed them out that said things like "Sleep is good" and so forth.

I'm wondering if anyone else uses tools like this.

Maybe some mantras or affirmations?

Mari


Here's what wikipedia says about vision boards
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vision_board

Vision Boards, also called Dream Boards, Mind Maps or Goal Maps, are typically a poster board on which people draw, paste or collage images that represent their desires, objectives, dreams and goals, based on the Law of Attraction. According to Oswaldo Koch, author of the book "Vision Boards: The Power of Intent", the purpose behind making a vision board is to intentionally attract the events and circumstances to manifest the things people want to have, who people want to become and the reality people want to co-create.

Here's an electronic version of a Vision board:
http://www.thepowerofthree.net/user-home.htm
http://www.thepowerofthree.net/

[Mrs. Bear]

When I was little, I had a very difficult time sleeping. And alot of the problem was from fear. So I started making up my own fairy tales in my head as I lay there in order to distract myself. I kept them very light and silly and full of beautiful things.

To this day, if I am having trouble falling asleep, and especially if it is because I am having worried thoughts, I will tell myself made up fairy tales. It works for me. But there is a problem with it. I never know how they end.....

[Mari]

Hi,
I like your fairy tales!
This is so much better than thinking about what I need to tell somebody or going over an old story of my life.

Maybe never ending fairy tales are the best kind.

Mari

[bizi]

I went to the power of three site...registered and it looks very interesting.
thanks for sharing the link.

I think I need to work on some goals other than "pay off bills".
bizi

[BJ]

I'm sort of doing something right now Mari but it's not this one. My pdoc wants me to put my desires, my emotions, my feelings, wants and needs in a scrapbook, not words just pictures. I bought a book and made a nice cover and was already to do it. Two weeks have gone by and do you know what's in it? Nothing, not one darn thing. How do you put pictures in a book of something you can't have? How can you put a smell, a touch, or a feeling of warmth in a book? Or a mother's hug. You can't. The anniversary of her death is fast approaching and that's all I can think about. She's going to be so disappointed in me

[bizi]

Dear Girlie,
I am sorry, I know that anniversary dates are hard.

Perhaps you could come up with a better way to express yourself....
it is hard looking at a blank piece of paper.
Maybe you can go thru some magazines and take a pair of scissors and just start cutting out some things that you like...get some of those glue sticks like the ones we used as kids....
maybe you can make a collage...maybe you could then cut out some words or phrases that you like to glue above them.
or you could jsut play with them out in front of you moving them around untill they felt right then glue them on.
YOu get to make up the rules here ...nobody has to see this...
YOu could also jsut take a pen and draw....what I mean is to think of a word and draw how it makes you feel.
I have scribbled alot of emotions on paper...it is jsut one way to get them out.
You can do this....
write your name real big on this first page....taking the first step is the hardest thing to do.
You can do this....
((((HUGS))))
bizi

[BJ]

Yes it's hard looking at a blank piece of paper Bizi but that's what it is, blank, empty. I thought I could do this and really wanted this to work but I didn't realize how hard it was going to be. I'm just so flat right now in my thoughts and feelings. I'm not sure if it's from the lithium or just total exhaustion from working so many hours. I have a lot of magazines so maybe I'll just starting cutting and see if I can make some sense of it all.

My pdoc said that I have a little OCD going on with all these intrusive thoughts, as she called it. I jump around from one thought to another and it always involves what ifs, what if I had stayed home from work that day knowing my mom was sick? What if I had taken her to the hospital in the morning seeing how swollen her legs were? But she didn't want to go, she said she was okay and would make an appointment to go. What if I had gotten gas in the morning, would I have made it to the hospital in time to say goodbye?

So I'm left with emptiness but if I could have done anything different I would have.

[bizi]

atta girl,
yes just start cutting and pasting...
Has your pdoc ever suggested lamictal for you, it has anti depressant qualities...I can't take antidepressants because they make me manic.
I really like the lamictal. It is a mood stabilizer in the anti convulsant family.
Can't remember if we have talked about this before...
bizi
and yes you are exhauseted from working so many hours!

[Dmom3005]

ME BP

I have to ask, Can you think of the your mom's favor cookie.

If so then find a picture of it, and put it on a page. And then I'd put
the picture of my favorite cookie right next to it. And write
under neath it. This is my mom's favorite cookie, and this is mine.

I'm so glad my mom and I loved cookies. Or a favorite cake or something
else like that.


Then a flower, or say song.

Donna

[Mari]

Dear MeBP,

Those intrusive thoughts also sound like could be caused by anxiety.
Can your pdoc help you? Your tdoc?

I'm sorry that you lost your mother and are reliving what happened.
Does it help to try to focus on something good -- like the cookie suggestion? Or her favorite song?

Mari