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Dmom3005 10-14-2008 12:42 PM

Brokenfriend

I'm so sorry things are happening this way.

I have a feeling things are getting tight financially for them, just like
many of the rest of us. Not that its a reason to treat you the way
they are.

I also wonder if maybe they are having problems paying her medical
bills. I know that I'm really struggling with mine.

Donna

Mari 10-14-2008 02:01 PM

Dear Friend,
I grieve for you.
Moving is hard even under good circumstances.

Even though an agency might have a waiting list, they move people up to the top of the list when they have an emergency.

M.

mymorgy 10-14-2008 04:30 PM

I forgot but I heard what Mari said also. This might be an opportunity in disguise. I know what you are going through is terrifying besides so painful. I am sorry she is your sister.
bobby

befuddled2 10-14-2008 08:26 PM

:hug: BF :hug:

I wish I could help.

Dmom3005 10-14-2008 08:58 PM

Yes, agencies do move you to the top when you need to find new
places.

So this could be a blessing. You can make this a blessing, its
how you look at it.

Donna

Mari 10-18-2008 03:01 AM

Dear Friend,
How are you feeling?
Do you have a counselor to talk to about this?

Mari

Dmom3005 10-18-2008 05:07 PM

Yes, I'm wondering how its going too.

Also hoping you have someone to talk to about this.

Donna

Brokenfriend 10-18-2008 08:42 PM

Hi Mari
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mari (Post 390570)
Dear Friend,
How are you feeling?
Do you have a counselor to talk to about this?

Mari

Not yet. They are still going through the paper work. They have known that I need a counselor for several months. Last monday I called the emergency hot line to talk to a counselor 3 times at Region Ten. Right now I'm alone facing this. Thanks for your concern.

My sister called region ten,and talked to my case manager,and I see my case manager Thursday to fill out more forms. In the mean time this is eating away at me more,and I'm not sure how long I can take it.

This is the absolute truth,and I'm not sure why my sister is wanting to have me put out of this extra old house that they have. She knows that I'm running out of money,and she said she isn't going to help me. I've heard two different things about what they want to do with this house.

She became angry when she became more ill with the MS. I'm sorry that she has the MS,and I tried to help her with cleaning the house,and doing errands for her. In the last six months she seems to be getting some sort of hostility toward me. I've backed away,and try not to talk to her.In the last two,out of three phone calls,it was like she tried to start an argument. In one of those calls,she was fussing,and I had to quietly put the phone down on the receiver.

My Social Security Disability hearing is in February,according to my Lawyer. I talked to my Lawyers Paralegal on friday about this situation. She could hardly believe it,and she was a little upset about it. It surprised me that a Lawyers Paralegal cared. Maybe I talked to her when she was tired.

This has been one of the most degrading times in my life,and I've had emotional problems since I was a teenager. This is very embarrassing,degrading,and the Rejection in my family is to the extent that I can hardly believe that it's happening.

For her to call me out of the blue to have me move leaves me disgraced,and sorrowful. I don't know where to begin. I've started throwing things away. I'm tired. I'm aggravated. The thought that family is doing this to me,hasn't fully hit me yet.

In taking the Seroquel,has slowed me down,and I don't want to move yet. I'm not emotional prepared to move. I can hardly think about it. They don't listen to my problems anymore. I feel so alone in this. I hope that I make it through this.

I feel bad for talking about this situation like this. Thank you for caring. I'm not trying to create a drama. This is real,and It's not fair. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:

watsonsh 10-18-2008 08:47 PM

Dear Brokenfriend,

I am praying for you and hoping that an easy solution comes our way. Please try to not take the hostility of your family on yourself. Its terrible that people lash out at others when faced with issues and I pray that your sister changes her mind or that a solution can be found. You are in my thoughts. :hug:

Brokenfriend 10-18-2008 08:59 PM

Thank you Shelley
 
I hope that your husband is going to be alright at his job. Gosh,I understand. I really do. Tell him that I say,"Hi",and that It's not his fault. Some bosses lash out with cruelty,and they don't hold back. I hope that you all have a fine evening. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:


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