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Originally Posted by Brokenfriend (Post 392058)

OH!!! LOL We all make mistakes. We are all human,and sometimes it's good to confront a person who has wronged you.

In my sister's case,I can't reason with her. She exerts her opinion over everything that I say,and judges me,and overreacts,and holds a grudge,and reminds me later. There's no use in saying anything in these circumstances. It would just start a family war,or something. I just leave it alone. I only talk to her briefly,because I know it's going to spin out of control. BF

Oh man! In that case stay away from her! People who hold grudges are not healthy people. It sounds like she has some major issues of her own to deal with. What is her problem she sounds like my Aunt. My Aunt has deep hatred for my Grandma (her mother) and ever since she got married and had kids she made sure that her mother never see her grandchildren ever. And now that my grandma is dieing of cancer and all. She still flat out refuses to see her own mother. That is just horrible. My Aunt is not very forgiving. She has a major issues. She talks to me sometimes and wants to have me on her side. But I am not dumb. I am so way smarter than that. So I talk to her but I do not talk about my grandma or father because she is holding something against them both. Oh how she is just a corrupted soul living in denial it is all so sad to know this. She is not truly happy I know that for a fact. All she has to do it make peace. Why is that so hard to do?

ok I am sorry I did it again XD
hahaha
I stay away from unhealthy family. They are just not worth your time because you deserve better :)

Still sending positive vibes.

Donna

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Originally Posted by Yellowfever (Post 392280)

It seems like some people never admit that they are wrong,and they never apologize.

Some people are reasonable,and let things go ,and forgive.

I'll apologize,and try to make peace even if others are wrong sometimes. With me,it's not hard at all to try to make peace.

I try to keep the communication avenues open,and peace. Some just will not.

That makes it a cruel world.

I wish people could lay their grudges,and differences down. Some will argue with you to keep their grudges. I'll never understand that,and all the bickering,and fault finding that they rant. Brokenfriend:hug: