BF would they feel different if you could get Section 8 income assistance? I did this with my dd and it was a God send for sure. she also Qualified for some onside assistance for housekeeping which helped me out. Never got to see that part happen, but the section 8 was an answere for me to have her close and income from my property.

There was a lease, so she could not be put out, when winterazation redid all window and doors, I could not, nor would raise ehr rent. So through ehr shehad a better place to live and I knew she was taken care of and not my money draining.

I am thinking about you and saying a prayer.
:hug:
di

Thank you DiMarie
 

I'll look into that. She's not in a good frame of mind right now,and it's understandable. She's been in the Hospital for two weeks,and now she going to rehab for two months,she tells me.

I'm not very sure what she's thinking. Honestly,she told me one thing,and told my Region Ten department of mental health case worker something else. I'm not calling her right now because she is angry,and been that way for a long time at many people,and our parents. What I'm going to do is ask my case worker what she said,and work from there. I'll also ask her about Section 8. This could change my sisters mind. I don't know though.

Thank you for the idea about Section 8,and thank you for the prayer. I'm going to say a prayer for you,because I know of you grief,and our Father in Heaven knows just how deep your grief is,and his grace is with you. Bless your heart DiMarie. I know that you are hurting,and God is close to the broken in heart. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:

Dear Friend,
You are getting some good ideas here.
Please know that we care about you.
M.

I agree with all that has been said.

And want to add. None of us want you to stop talking to us about
this or any problem. Its just as important, and in many cases
more important than somethings we have happening.

Such as when I get mad at my husband. Even more important
than my gallbladder right now.

Donna

That is odd. ok do not take this the wrong way. But your sister should of given you a two week notice at least. She sounds like you can not depend on her. I am sorry you are going through this. I have had family do mean things to me too. So I do not depend on them at all. I flat out refuse to depend on anyone. I only depend on myself. Stay strong, I am not sure what your living situations is but I hope you find another place that benefits you :)
fevah

She told me out of the blue that she wants me to move. I assume she was saying she wants me to move maybe in the two months that she is in the rehab. I live in a part of their old abandoned house.

She may be monitoring my posts. I don't know.

I'm seeing a Mental Health Case manager soon. I think that she's trying to see if she can get this going faster then we had planned.

I haven't even had my Social Security Disability hearing yet.

There is a waiting list for places to stay.

I don't think that she is in her right mind.

She moved me here,and then turned on me,and caused division,and alienation. The whole situation is strange,and has something to do with something that is going on in her. She is full of anger more then anyone I know. I will never put my trust in her again. She has also told my Dad some things that where not correct.

This hurts me,and I wonder what I'm going to do. This also makes me angry,because I've been slammed by my own family. I would have never moved up here if I thought that she was going to do this.

I'm sorry. I'm just getting this off my chest. BF:hug:

Let it out. You have the right to be angry. I would be angry too! Me however I tend to get really mean, cruel and spiteful when my family slams me. I literally slam right back at them. Which I do NOT recommend. I have had my family get so frustrated with me that they told me that I am a hypochondria. They tell me I do things on purpose. I literally tell them to go f off. And I also tell them if you want to be a part of my life then you need to accept me. If not then I will live my life with out them. But even though I said that and hurt them, I hurt myself as well because I do love them.

I know you love your family even though they may slam you. You are hurting. No one truly understands unless they have it themselves.
At least you can get support from your friend :)

Ok I am such a bad example. I say a lot of things I should not say to my family even if they make me mad. I should not say certain things regardless! So I apologize for my nonsense. It is part of me I have to work on.
Thanks:hug:

Thats so true. We who have these problems are misunderstood. Evidentally people who are mentally healthy do not understand what we are going through,whatsoever. It might be considered being week,but it is not that way at all. It's a affliction that scientists can prove exists by brain scans,and etc. It comes down the family tree. It is very complicated,and real. They know volumes about these things now,and are discovering more knowledge every day.

I even wonder if vaccinations have altered our emotional state of being. What is it? Why do so many people struggle with these issues? Did these problems exist in the middle ages? Did anyone ever have a panic attack in the 16th century? BF

OH!!! LOL We all make mistakes. We are all human,and sometimes it's good to confront a person who has wronged you.

In my sister's case,I can't reason with her. She exerts her opinion over everything that I say,and judges me,and overreacts,and holds a grudge,and reminds me later. There's no use in saying anything in these circumstances. It would just start a family war,or something. I just leave it alone. I only talk to her briefly,because I know it's going to spin out of control. BF