This is just horrid. I just keep hoping you will find a way out of that place as soon as possible. Those people just don't sound at all with it. And supposedly we're the one's with mental "issues." HAH!

Well. I mostly wanted to let you know i read your post and leave you some of these...



and some of these on behalf of everyone here



you hang in there.
let 'em talk bla bla bla bla bla... walk away. hear it fade off as you walk into your house. its just a bunch of empty words. empty.

i hope you manage to get a good night's sleep.

i am still hoping you will get to talk to your DV counselor and pdoc for some short term support... that is until you can get out of there.

~ waves ~

Barbara

You are the strong one in this situation. And the neighbors are
the idiots. So ignore them.

Donna

Barbara,

Here's the thing.
It is not you.
I would want you for a neighbor. You are lovely.
I am sure that you deserve good treatment.
Know that. Really tell yourself that.

What is going on has nothing to do with you.

This is about their type of craziness -- craziness that they have been involved in their whole lives.

Choose to participate in your own life.
Leave them a lone.

Please call the DV counselor.


Mari

Thank you all. My nerves are so bad I just want this all to end. I'm going to email my DV counselor right this moment for her schedule an appointment with me.

barbara

Hi Barbara,

That sounds good. I hope she can see you quick.

I have been thinking about you. I really feel for you. I am glad you posted.

Hang in there... you will get through this. Keep reminding yourself that you are not the bad guy. Do not engage your neighbors. Keep to yourself as much as possible, to protect yourself.

I keep wishing you steadfastness to bear these hardships through.

((( Barbara )))

~ waves ~

Barbara

Wish I could do more.

Donna

I hope you do make that appt and talk with the counselor.

You need someone to listen and sit with you while you come up with a good plan of action.
Put it down on paper and keep it handy for times when the neighbors are gossiping.
Or when the next door one causes problems.

You and the counselor should be able to write some good ideas of how to respond, or not, to these people.

Add pleasant alternative actions and stress relievers to the list too.

Thanks yall. My blood pressure was high earlier but I've gotten that under control for now. I have situational high blood pressure and it goes up every time my neighbor harasses me. I email my DV counselor for an appointment asp.

barbara

Good job, Barbara!

I hope that your DV counselor can see you soon and helps you come up with a plan for how to deal with that stuff.

Keep focusing on keeping yourself calm and reminding yourself how wonderful you are. You are wonderful and deserving of all good things. Make sure that you know that.

M.

Maybe you can call Adult Protective Services for your protection from this neighbor. Call Social Services,and ask about this service. That lady is causing your Blood pressure to go up,and that's bad,and harmful to your health as you know. There's no excuse for a person to harrass you like this. It sounds like the way she's harrassing you is getting deeper,and deeper. BF