sigh..........

My MIL passed away the 21st, just before Thanksgiving.... Now I'll be taking care of m FIL. They were married 58 years... Actually my husband has stepped up and is really helping me with him alot. I honestly think its out of guilt though.
He never had a very good relationship with either of his parents. He's still in their apartment in the independant living side of the place they live. Again My DH doens't see the need of him moving to assisted living. I guess for now i agree as it would be to much for him. He really wants to stay on the independant side. We've changed his contract to having 3 meals a day instead of one, and we have the home health people who have an office there come in and check on him once a day. I check on him at least once a day, ( i work on the assisted living side as activities person) and my husband gets over there at least 5 times a week.
{{{HUGS}}}} to everybody today!!!!!
vicky