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Denise Diaz 09-07-2008 04:01 PM

i quit the therapy the dr was not very good i like my own dr better. this dr had enough nerve to tell me that she doesnt know what to do for me and that i am a mystery what kind of dr says that to her patient that already doesnt have any hope thank you all for your i really apprieciate it:grouphug:

Brokenfriend 09-08-2008 01:36 AM

Denise
 
My Gosh! She said that you are a mystery? Let that go,and try to forget it. I've had unusual reactions from people myself. Many of these professionals make big mistakes. They have made mistakes,and it goes around,and around in my head. Please don't let that happen to you. It does have a tendency to grieve me over,and over when it happens. Try to let the mistake of that person go,and keep pursuing treatment. Remember therapists are human,and they will make mistakes. I'm so sorry that she said that to you. Remember,keep pursuing treatment. Love ya....BF:hug::hug::hug:

Denise Diaz 09-08-2008 12:48 PM

I could use some advice. I might have to go back to work and leave treatment alone for now even though drs tell me noway. But I got approved from SSI and they said i would start receiving checks in about 3 weeks. But than they reviewed my husbands income and now they said I am not approved for it. That he makes too much money. But after taxes he doesnt and our bills. It is hard paying for my medical bills right now. With all the copayments for all the medicines and also the copayments for all the Drs its just too much so i cant afford it. unless i get ssi or i go back to work so i dont know what to do does anyone have any advice for me thank you:hug:

Brokenfriend 09-09-2008 02:06 AM

Denise
 
I'm sorry that the ect treatments didn't work. Maybe the vns treatments will work.

I hate the fact that the SSI said you are going to get it,then they took it away from you. Our government cannot coordinate a thing,or do much of what the citizens voted them in for.:mad:

Call your Lawyer back,or call another lawyer. Email your representative. I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. BF:hug:

Burntmarshmallow 09-09-2008 09:36 AM

Denise I am also sad to hear how the doc treated you and dislike what was said. I would not give that comment another thought, I would be thinking what a crappy doc they are and how unprofessional they act and do their job. They are specialests , they are SUPOSE to be professionals. Thats what i would say to the nurses and doc next time i went so it is on your file what happened.
I am also sorry ss did that to you and your family. did they have you bring in all your bills , med costs,dr visits and food and all that. did they offer any kind of help for you . can you get food stamps and assitance that way? I know in Florida after my accident i got food stamps , medicade for doctors and medications .
I had to pay it all back after my settlement but at the time it kept me and my family going..barely going but it helped us survive durring that time.
Please keep going for counciling at least. if you stop going to everything then it is going to show on file that you dont need help and wont look good at all it will look like you are fine and that wont help you with getting assitance with your bills. so please keep going to counciling try to get one on one or maybe do group 2 times a week and one on one . Here they have a thing called the allen group for low income people who need counciling it is one on one type do they have that where you are?
and I had a head injury in 1999 i still have memory problems and stuff. I have a 2 year time span that i can not recall at all ..zip ...notta. so your not alone Denise . lots of us are like that. :hug: :hug:
write importian things down on calender , leave notes for yourself. make a list of things you need to get done . it helps you get into the swing of things and remember better.:hug: is it possible to work part time? i know it will be hard as heck but if its possible id try it.
Hug those boys for me and please know we care and are here for you.keeping you and your family in prayers always Denise.keep holding on and looking for help and trying all options as they come your way. look into that new medication RU486. that Laura mentioned. your a strong wonderful person thats loved by many!!! God Bless you :grouphug:
PEACE
BMW

Denise Diaz 09-10-2008 01:32 PM

well i have to go back to work starting tuesday. so this will be my last week off from work. doc doesnt think i should but than again the doc doesnt pay my bills or take care of my 2 sons either so i will try to post as much as i can but between work drs and family i might not have much time thanks again everyone:grouphug:

prettynpinkk 09-10-2008 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Sannah (Post 280479)
Hi Denise, I am sorry that you are in a tough situation. I was able to recover from anxiety by working on issues like self-esteem, personal boundaries, meeting my needs, empowerment, gaining control over my life, learning how to deal with my feelings and dealing with all the feelings that I had not dealt with, learning how to live in the present fully, social skills, to name a few issues. Have you ever dealt with any of these things in therapy? Did you have a tough upbringing?

Hi,i am going through the same problem he is right now.
QUESTION: All thoe things you offered are great but what about when you have A.D.D and trying to remeber all those thing for ex; personal boudries, learning how to live in the present is hard.

THis is my day if i tried those thing....In school inturupt i tell myself to have control, 2 seconds latter i am thinking negitive thouhgt, i think " think something postive, 2 seconds latter, 2 seconds latter, two seconds latter, it's always something. Than my personality disorde rmakes it also 10times worse. When your trying to fix yourself and you have these disorders it's very complex.

Brokenfriend 09-10-2008 10:11 PM

Denise
 
I'm sorry that you have to go back to work after all of this depression,and not getting a treatment that helps:hug:. I don't know what to say. BF:sorry:

Brokenfriend 09-11-2008 08:38 PM

Denise
 
How are you doing tonight? BF

Brokenfriend 09-12-2008 07:14 PM

Denise
 
How are you? It's Friday night. I'm thinking about you. BF:hug:


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