Originally Posted by braingonebad

I have to guess most of those people think the same of you that we do here, Kicker. That you ARE strong, that you are a fighter, that you are doing better than most people would, given the challenges you face.

It's tough to put that into words - especially for folks who have not had to tow that line.

I have to guess they are trying to tell you that they know things are tough for you but you're tough and fighting it all the way, as gracefully as you can. That they don't mean to say that you could do better, but rather they wonder if they could do as well.


Surely, if we can see it from a forum, they can too right there in the room with you. You're stronger than you know.