(((Legz))) I'm sorry you were treated that way. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior. There is a code of ethics for nurses and she broke them as far as I'm concerned. If it were me, I would write her a letter explaining her inappropriate comments. You can CC the board of nursing in your area. Or you can complain to the board of nursing and cc the nurse. Unfortunately, I don't think you are the only patient she has done this with.

When I worked at the hospital, these types of comments would certainly get a nurse fired. There was no tolerance for that kind of stuff.
Glad you talked to your PCP and that he gave you a list of other neurologists.