(((Hugs!)))) I feel your pain! I do know what you're talking about, that horrible nerve pain, and it also causes muscle spasms, and I NEVER had a migraine before MS. Have you tried massage? It seems to help me a lot if I have it once a month or so. We have a franchise where you can buy a membership and then it's not very expensive to get a massage, and it has been a Godsend for me.

As far as the work - PPBBBBBTTHHTT! That work will still be there when you're feeling better. A little dust, dirty dishes or laundry never killed anyone! I know it's hard, but sometimes you have to put yourself first.