You reminded me to be good to those around me who do help. I cannot afford a handy man either, and sometimes my neighbors come to the rescue. I am sorry you lost your husband. I know what it means to love someone, and then loose that person. I wish you peace in your life, and new friends to help you. ginnie

Erika, what a wonderful idea! You're helping yourself and others at the same time.

I lease my house so I'm not sure how the landlord would feel about the back yard being turned into a veggie/flower garden but for those who can manage it it's a great idea.

I have to have a man keep my yard mowed and trimmed up. He's great and gives me a break on the cost. My DH died almost 11 years ago and it's difficult without anyone to take care of the "big" stuff. I've been truly blessed with good folks in my life.

There's a few of us here who've lost our husbands and have to "figure it out" on our own. We can help each other by sharing tips and ideas of what works for us.

Wow Erika! That is quite a venture and adventure you have going on there. What fun. I only wish I were able to join you.

I don't even get out in my yard anymore, scared I'll fall and won't be able to get back in. I'm a little agoraphobic. The nice yard that I and DH took care of for 30+ years, is now just barely taken care of by others..

But to lease your yard out to people who, in exchange, would keep your yard neat and trimmed, is a grrrrrreat idea.

Awe, sorry to hear that Sally. Wish you could join us in the garden patch too. Its a loose arrangement and people do what they want to and only when they can; but I hear you on the fear of falling etc. This rotten disease is so cruel.

With love and hugs, Erika