I am usually a very meek mild mannered person but I had enough and he really pushed my buttons. Illness has done the exact opposite to me as it has to you. I have become very different personality-wise. I am now short tempered, easily irritated, and no longer avoid confrontation.

Since you get intimidated, which I did when I was younger, I would definitely bring someone with you.... that way THEY can be the "bad" guy to speak up and it will not be held against you.

You really deserve to be treated much much better. I really do hope you can find someone and soon. You need to be heard and helped.