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04-06-2008, 12:30 PM
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Hello dear,
I am sorry I missed your original post but glad to read today how you are changing and adjusting. I too had a disabled husband and a very challening marriage as a result. Not his fault, as he had short term memory damage and I had very intrusive in- laws. I fought for him, advocated for him until the end. He was so toxic from his medications, 2 brain operations, etc that he died, suddenly and unexpectedly. I am glad for him that his suffering is over after 46 years of meds and seizures. I never knew what a toll taking care of him and putting him first played on my health until now. He also was upset I think that he could not truly care for me a I did for him. His parents played that up and as a result he would live with them and not me. STRESS can and will kill, slowly or quickly. We must take that seriously. Prioritizing, and delegating is so important. AND to re-think your goals and calling in this world..amazing!! What a learning experience!!! Keep us informed and let us know how you are doing, the good and the not so good. Warmly, Jan |
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