I have been going to a Grief Clinic at a local hospital once a week and am finding it somewhat helpful, say 3 out of 10. One of the people in my group is going through a divorce from a wife beating druggie and I see every week the pain she is going through by getting rid of the bum. So I understand that grief occurs in divorce as well as death of loved ones.

It would be much more beneficial to me to find singles like you and me that could meet once a month for lunch and help each other out with the basics of being in a less than healthy situation and contending with a lot of issues alone.

Unfortunately I live in the Phoenix area and it seems most of the people on these boards that I am aware of live more in the midwest and eastern coast parts of the country.

To keep the post on topic, I have definitely learned not to take Versed at my next colonoscopy!!

gmi