Originally Posted by jana

I met the family through the wife's blog. Originally, the doctors thought he had MG. It took quite a while for them to diagnose ALS. It is sort of a process of elimination. He died last spring -- only 38 years old. Soon after, his wife deleted her blog. I think it may have been too painful -- and they had children. I learned sooooo much from her blog -- they were such STRONG Christians -- and so open about what was happening to him. I think about them often.

The thing about blogs, forums, and groups for ALS patients.............you don't usually have this for very long (several years) -- and part of the time you aren't able to really communicate very well. So, I would think that many ALSers would rather be doing OTHER things -- ANYthing else but spending time on a computer talking about being sick. MGers on the other hand -- we are in this for the long haul -- normal life spans. We have years to observe our symptoms, figure out how to manage things, make friends with other MGers -- it's really just "different", if you see what I mean.

I would think that ALS patients would be more likely to have something like Caringbridge sites -- but, you would have to know their names to have access.

You might want to set a "google alert" for "ALS" and "Lou Gehrig's Disease" -- that way you MIGHT find someone's blog.

When is your fiance's next appointment? If I remember correctly, the docs start looking for muscle fascillations -- may make your guy put on the gown and watch his arms and legs with GREAT intensity. Especially the weak arm/hand.