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the kitchen and the Foyer are my two problem areas. I used to have problems with the bathroom but some strategically placed grab bars solved that problem. My "Eureka moment" came when I realized due to the narrowness of our kitchen, I was spinning on my heels to turn around, a wholly bad thing to do!! I know now to take 3-4 baby steps to turn around. You all do know that their is a specialty, which for the life of me I cannot recall right now, that will survey your home and make "Parkie friendly" suggestions. SOmetimes I just lose my balance for no apparent reason and the next thing I know the pups are standing over me licking my face!!...LOL My underlying thought here is you must take care of yourself. We cannot depend on others to do it for us. They have no way of knowing our needs if we can't articulate them. THere is always a solution, we might not particularly care for it, but their are solutions. CHarlie |
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charlie.. i am sorry to hear about your fall. i have experienced them for awhile now, and it is scary because no matter how much you prepare for them, when they happen,,, they happen unexpectedly. i guess alot has to do with acceptance that it is indeed part of what to expect. when i fall now, i have tried to learn how to land. it can make a difference.
cs.. you are at the same point of life i was about 6 months before i met you. you must MUST take the bull by the horns here. you are highly intellegent and life's circumstances have beaten you down. you CANNOT give into this. you CANNOT blame anyone or anything for where you are now. what you MUST do is to think of what you CAN do to make life better. get away from where you are for awhile. you CAN do this. if you like, come stay here for a week or so. just getting away from dismal surroundings can do wonders for your soul. You need to find yourself again. do not listen to negativity from family, find your strength through self awareness. I was told i needed to be in assisted living by my family. I refused and now i am back in my home BY MYSELF with the help of friends. and you DO have friends, m'dear, that will help you and you must accept the help in order to stay out of the home. we talked while i was there. let go of the anger, let go of the pain of what has been done. take charge of what you can do now.. and LIVE.
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I have a post-encephalitic neurological disorder, but it does NOT have me! Last edited by harley; 03-31-2010 at 12:53 AM. |
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