BUT my DH retires this week end... Needless to say, there are gonna be a LOT of life adjustments? I've done my re-search stuff and all adjustments appear to be financially oriented...that's not an issue NOW tho it may be down the road...My concerns are more about HOW to keep the Good Guy feeling like he's doing something valuable....either volunteering or whatever for the interim...What all have you all done to DO and BE during the interims? I mean I don't travel well any more and IF I could encourage DH to do so I would....Adjustments and all that, advice as to where to look, any ideas would be appreciated. I don't want to break out any 2x4's here...Ya Know? Thanks! - j