Usually a specialist will not refer to another.

I am so sorry that the stress/anxiety card keeps getting played.

It is a laziness on the clinician's part.

I once was able to fall asleep in five minutes and sleep for 8-9 hours straight without a hitch.

Those nights are gone and waking to nerve pain and tingling is a nightmare in itself without having supportive people to help you.

As another suggestion, you might try this website:

https://www.ratemds.com

I have found that most of the reviews are close to my experience with the physician's and other providers I have seen. There is one fantastic one that helped me that was rated the same way.

Hope you get some support soon.