Someone has to know something about some of the stuff you are dealing w/in a different state...Funny, specialists in some quarters are very small 'circles of governance' =COG's...Usually someone in another state will KNOW of someone relevant in your state...The key legally is finding those DRATTED KEY WORDS!...Especially frustrating when you don't know what the language is? Never ever turn your nose up from pseudo advice or a name you could call and ASK plainly if this is their COG? Worst that can happen is a non-response or a NOPE CAN't HELP...then YOU can ask, any ideas of WHO?WHAT TYPE of expert I need? go from there...Lots of phone time, but freebies are just that, free...
DO NOT EVER, get into that mental trap that 'now that I'm sick, I can't do anything right! You are sick, you have to pace yourself, but, you can organize yourself better [even with colors?] than you ever did in a stressful professional life 'cause you can blot out many working distractions and CONCENTRATE on that which is necessary....
I have faith in you, and I see others do as well. - j