hello jimking ! ty for responding, i appreciate it alot. i was diagnosed about a month now, i still have the broken wrist too, guarding it like crazy, as there is no cast, bones didnt heal together, so surgery cant come soon enough. i will show him your letter, maybe he will get it, it hurts my heart that he sits on his pc and does not even look it up, hopefully he'll come around? i dont know what or whered i be without him. again ty and say a warm hello to the mrs from me, you're a wonderful husband jimking, where is her rsd, how did it happen? id pm you but havent figured it all yet? ty again very much, kind words go a long way