I'm glad you're with your sister. I know it's hard. You can fight back. Nothing is wrong with you and everything is wrong with the family members that told you to u-know-what. I won't even type it. I know about family members.......my dad, in 8 yrs, has never once asked how I'm feeling. I had 3 back surgeries for RSD and never called to see how I was. My mother doesn't know the name of my condition. I asked her a coupe months ago. I live with her you think she would know by now (8 yrs running) lol. 2 of my closest friends are no longer friends and I knew them each for 30 years (since I was 7 yrs old). They treated me horribly because of my pains. I know family members aren't something that you can no longer speak to but their advice is ridiculous and extremely wrong! Hon there is always hope. It's not a well that dries up.

Post here when you lose hope. Even if it's every day. One good thing is that we ALL understand what you're going thru.

Take care of yourself,
Heather