Originally Posted by CRPSsongbird

Now there is some very good progress on this whole situation. My fiancé apologized! ! And said that in no way was the Crps my fault, he had just been feeling like we'll he was completely powerless to help me and pressured to not only support us monetarily temporarily but now permanently, plus take care of the house work, and everything else. And what was worse is one he wasn't opening up about his stresses like he usually does but he's been having his own health issues and not telling me...he has very high blood pressure and also has GERD. Or Gastro-Esophageal Reflux Disease. And both have been giving him problems with the how extremely stressed out he's been. He said that he finally realized why he he was getting so ****** off that at at the time he didn'treally mean a thing he said, it was just a nasty cycle. What happens is the more stressed out he gets the higher his blood pressure gets as well as it upsets his digestion with both those out of whack, he gets irritable, we bicker, which makes him more stressed and the cycle continues on and on until he just pops. Well he had decided that I didn't need anymore stresses and to just deal with what I needed to deal with. .....and that's where we ended up. ..