We are in shock, it is devestating all over again. After losing our De, his full sister, now he lost his brother. There were only 9 months between them, the reason my ex and I divorced. He grew up in school with ex's two other boys, but his father did not have a close relationship with our children. Holidays only when they were older my kids would call to go down...if they were available. But the boys always were brothers.

Just before dawn, after a night out, the boy made it less then a mile from his home and hit a tree. My son's sister in law called, but has not called back,
It is just such a heart ache for me to lose these children and to have my son and his father lose two now. There is also a 1 1/2 year old left behind.

I was just beginning to bring myself from deep depresion and now this just made my heart feel like it is being ripped out.

Pray for the family my dear friends,
Di

oh (((((((DiMarie))))))))) I am so sorry to read this

my heart aches for you and your son and I pray their will be light even in this darkness

(((DiMarie))) I am so very sorry.

Oh Di. So much loss. I'm so very sorry to read this. You try to keep strong. We'll be thinking of you.

Oh, so sorry

Only God knows why this things happen right ??

Praying for you and your family. God Bless.

I am so very sorry for all the losses you and your family have suffered. (((DiMarie)))

After reading what you wrote i feel very sad for your loss i hope you and yours can make it over this and hold each outher tight as you can.You have to go on your other son needs you sooooooo very much and your husband to i can not takr your pain away but only say how truly sorry i am to hear your pain i hope in time you all are able to smile again peace be with you and yours Sherry

Sherry my goodness what a loving person you are. In your time of such a horrific emotional time, you share your kindness and love for my family. It was an emotionally draining time and so emotional, but here we have such great supporting friends.

My ex husband seems to be the hardest affecte. His second wife turned away from me and I gave her my shoulder to be there understanding her loss like no one could in the family. She did not answere. I had so many emotions from the loss of our daughter (ex and mine) I had all the hurt open wounds for these children that we never should have to bury.

But I read your post, and from my police work, I know how the victims of abusive men are affected. I am so sorry that your family is in this emotional truma.
It sounds trite, but if there is anything we can do for you, please ask. They prayers are unconditional.
But if you have the courts address and the name of a local newspaper there I would love to send letters.
PM or post the information and I will give any support I can.
Seems to be how I function best, to keep busy and supporting in any manner I can.
My prayers and hugs are with you So very much
dianne

well here you go the t.v crew that taped me was chan 11 i will give you her direct number her name is Andra Gustie 907-3146
Judge namd AARSETH i have a form i have to mail out to judicial conduct there e-mail address is mgreensteinacjc.state.ak.us and the number is 9072721033 and they have a fax number too 907-2729309


Alaska commission on judicial conducy
1029 w. 3rd Ave suit #550
Anchorage ,Alaska
99501-1944
wow thank you i know when you think of other peopls pain it takes it off your self for a while you work for the police Dept? never a dull min yh well if you ever want to talk look me up i will be your friend SSherry

Sherry,
Contact NAMI too! Their attorny's can help I hope.
I will take a form too, can you scan and email, or fax it to me. I already sent to the News desk of the paper about Information I understand from NAMI presentations. That I thought it was dispictable! Sherry, if you were a victims mother do you think you would have been treated better? I hate to think that, but for heavens sake where is the compassion an understanding.

I am so frustrated over my own dd 13 anixiety/panic moderate agoraphobia that I am considering strongly for a service dog. I would have done it already except for the cats. My dd three cats I am raising now are sketzy of dogs and strangers. I would never want her to face a hurdle like this.

You let me know what else I can do. Do you by any chance have an attorney interested in dealing with the media to deal with this?

I know from the Judicial board here it took years of bizzare behaviour to finally take down one of our female judges. There were dozens of defendants to her probmatic reign. I was victimized by her when she applogised to my abuser for HIS inconvienance. She thought I was trying to extend my order. She never considered how he did thi actions thinking the order had expired.

I hope that a discrimination charge to the Judge will help you in all future court dates. I would think too, she should recuse herself. how can she be fair to your son, when she may be ticked about your pup situation.
My hugs to you and prayers for all, so much burden for your family.
Dianne