Renee- I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this. I agree with Carolina, I too could say so much but it is not my place. I can only support you and encourage you through this emotional process. You will be fine and you will make it through it. I will keep you all in my prayers. Sending lots and lots of cyber's for you and your little ones.

Fin - How was your 1st day of retirement? Well, forced retirement. LOL. I hope you enjoyed your day.

Vonn - Let us know what you decide to do. It may be a nice break to get away from everything. Does your friends mom have a/c? Could you break the trip up in to smaller parts as opposed to driving 10 hours straight?

Sandy - Hugs to you too. I didn't post on your Vent thread yet. I just sat down and was going to lurk a bit as I have so much to do right now. But, I saw Renee's post and signed on. I will keep you all in my prayers as well.

Hi Everyone else - Thank you so much for all the supportive and kind words you have share for our Renee. How awesome you all are.

I just can't Renee. I don't feel right telling all that is going on. Don't worry because we know the heartache and devastation your going through is enough and we don't need all the details.

I will tell you her lawyer is on it. Jim and I also told her if the military command is on it, he wont be able to just leave her stranded like this. They said he isn't doing anything wrong if he didn't kick her out. What a crock of bs. Jim told her to go up and keep going up the chain of command. He lied to his commanders and that should be enough to get him. Not to mention he lied to her. This is abandonment, plain and simple. He can't leave her with nothing, she earned her right to not be done this way.

My whole take on this is he should have man'd up and just told her. Not just leave her like this. He wont even return her calls. I will say he is placing the blame on her and Dayton which is cruel. Dayton is the one who found the note. He says it's about money. If it was about money why didn't he say something?

Renee, get in touch with Kitty because she may have some contacts to help you with a better price for a truck.

UM, I have a little SUV. School for DDs ends next week. We could be there in about . . . 4 or 5 days.

Oh Renee, how I wish I could do this for you.

Renee, I'm so darn sorry you have to go through this.

I'll be thinking of you too.

Im posting this just in case you read tonight. You will be in my
thoughts and prayers tonight Renee. Give your kids big hugs
tonight Renee, and remember that we are all sending big, big hugs
your way.

Renee, know we're here for you. No details are necessary. My prayers are with you. Glad you consulted a lawyer.

Sandy & Jim, sounds like very good advice you gave Renee.



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First day was attacking the fridge and doing some lite cleaning. Tired, but a good tired - which I haven't felt in a long time.

I was a little sad at the beginning of the day, but felt better as I did more around the house. I can see the plus side of being able to go to the grochery store during a weekday versus trying to fight the lines on the weekend.

Renee, I'm sick to my stomach about his conduct unbecoming an airforceman.

his actions are simply reprehensible, and I sincerely hope you get through this safely and with grace...

I'll be praying for you to have strength and courage to rise above his dishonorable and despicable tactics.

hugs from afar, K

Jim sorry to hear this, hopefully u can get iv's at home, Sandy sorry house is tense, hang in there or try to please, don't need u visiting crackerjack palace

as for me I am feeling better, pnuemoonia is exiting stage left. they won't do nerve block for chucky, too much of a risk for me at present time, they r afraid of infection.
as for my GI tract, it sucks
as for pain meds they still rock.....woooohoooo
I hope eveyone fairs well this weekend, and your caring and concerns have touched my heart.

M'ladies, I thank you all.......bowing deeply with a sweeping jesture of my hat.........

thank you
peace

p.s. keep fingers crossed I get out here today.

Thanks so much for all of your kind words. It is 320 Am haven't slept a wink I have no voice, I bounce between being angry and bawling and lonely and bawling and confused. My parents are coming next week to get us out of here.

Argh, Renee!! I can feel your pain, numbness, shock, and disbelief al at once. I went through a horrible situation with my husband a few years back. It feels like someone dropped a bomb in the middle of your life. I questioned EVERYTHING in our life, it felt like ALL of it must've been fake. PM me when you are up to talking. All I wanted then was to get out of that house, I went to my parents also. Please take care of you and get some help with the kids. ((((Renee))))