I know this is the LAST thing you want to be doing.....but it wouldn't be a bad idea to keep a time line journal of when and what he does. That way you won't have to rely on memory when you need to know something - you'll have it documented.

You might already be doing this but I just thought of it so I just wanted to mention it to you.

Renee, Can you get one of those cell phones that has prepaid minutes on it so you can use it for emergencies?

My update: Have not done much for past few days. I am feeling kind of down for some reason. Maybe it has to do with the colonoscopy I am having on Wednesday and the MRI which is scheduled for Friday. I hate doing the prep for the colonscopies. This is my third one. My dad had colon cancer. Missed the worst of the bad weather yesterday. Supposed to get some more storms tonight.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend!

Renee, I'm so sorry he's doing this too you. I haven't said much, but I have been keeping up.

Pretty sad at what a first class A hole he's turning out to be. I cannot even imagine what you are going through. I get angry at him just reading what he's doing. I couldn't imagine living through it.
On top of that I cannot believe the military is allowing it to happen this way.

Do your bank accounts say Renee and hubby? or Renee or hubby?
It makes a difference. If it says "and" then he cannot do that. It takes both of you to do anything different on the account.

I would contact my attorney ASAP tomorrow. See what the attorney has to say about it.

Hang in there
DAY

aw geez, NaeNae, my heart *aches* for you !

renee I am so sorry this is happening to you, and the g rated part of this site doesnt allow me to call him what he needs to be called, regardless, as a male I am ashamed to hear of such behaviors as this, I am sorry you are being hurt.

hope everyone is doing as well as you are able, kind of hard to be happy, thinking about what renee is going through its just rotten and low of him, my deb says she is sorry also renee I would like to add there are a few things i want to say about it all I just not sure if its my place, after you were so worried about him and his surgery I just cant believe anyone could stoop so low to hurt you like this, you can ask deb here I have said many cursive words regarding this, they say we are only handed what we can handle. Let me tell you I felt at times i was handed too much, I think one reason this is bothering me so much is because it is almost very similar to what i went through, back in 1990. Renee I prevailed for almost ten years on my own, robert my genius who just graduated my youngest, got his first bday card with two parents singnature when he was ten yrs old, when i remarried, my ex split when he was ten months old, it was hell at times but friends did help even with just kind words. you have my kind words, support, and prayers for strength when needed, you are in deborahs and my heart, dont hesitate,

peace folks

sorry Renee HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I would do that log too..of when and what he is doing or trying to do....I would check the accounts too...depending on the names on them....good luck on it all...and HUGSSSSSSSSSSS

Frank, how you feeling?? hoping much better...I have had two rough days, humidity beats me to pieces...always seem drunk when humid...(although undx...funny drs will say...humidity doesnt affect patients with MS....)

Booyahhhh they use that phrase at McDonald's Management schooling...hehe....

Well not much here, weather is crazy...was up to 70s..now down in 30s with an actual frost advisory...my poor flowers must be sooo confused outside...

hugsss to all, sarah

Renee - I do not mean to pry but how are your kids dealing with this?

Hey all. I spoke to Renee and she's hanging in there. To answer a few questions...yes she has a lawyer and she knows what's going on and working her butt off to fix it. Two, the prepaid cell is a great idea! The kids are doing OK. Dayton doesn't ask about him since he knows why he left (read the note) and Olivia has asked about him twice. Once she called out for him in her sleep and once she went to the door and said "I don't know where my dada is." So sad. The bank account and all utilities are in his name so he can change things for now.

I do know the plan but feel apprehensive putting it here for fear someone may read it and use it against her. I am sure you all understand. I wouldn't put anything past him at this point.

Renee, So sorry all this stuff's happening. Prayers going out for ya as always, hun. No details are ever needed. Just know we're here for ya.

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Never got the storms they were predicting yesterday - so us, the friends, and the godkids went to the zoo. Lions, tigers, and bears - Oh my!

Of course today I am paying big time for the past two days. Plus side, got my exercise for the week down in two days, LOL.

Now where did I put that coffee?

Who brought the frickin cold back to the midwest????? WHO????? I had to put my heat back on. Wow.

Today's chore, clean bathroom and bedroom.