Has anybody out there had a cervical fusion that came out well?

From my MRI report, I have "C5-6: Severe bilateral foraminal stenosis by uncovertebral osteophytes, worst on the right. Mild central canal stenosis by posterior disc osteophyte complex."

Two and a half years ago, a spinal surgeon said I have two options: C5-6 fusion, or "live with it." This all started about three years ago with tingling in my right thumb. It's progressed to phantom cramping pain that comes and goes in various places from my right trapezius down to my fingertips. Although it's aggravating and annoying, the pain is not excruciating. I'm most concerned about permanent nerve damage.

I went through physical therapy (twice), and I've learned some techniques to make the symptoms disappear (such as pulling my head down and to the left). But it's getting worse and now I have phantom pain in my left forearm as well.

I've exhausted all noninvasive treatment alternatives, and now I'm scared to death. Throughout my entire life (until this thing started), I was very active and in exceptional shape. I'm 53 now, and I've gradually become more and more sedentary. I so want to be able to run, swim, lift weights, and engage in adventure sports again.

Is there anybody out there who's been through something similar? Has cervical fusion worked for anybody?