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Old 04-18-2011, 08:50 AM #1
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Today is my daughter Pam's birthday. She would have been 49 had she lived. I miss her.
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tight hugs for you Barbo . Pam is out in the universe now all around you and is smiling at you, knowing you remembered today is her Birthday.
I am deeply Sorry for your loss
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Old 04-18-2011, 12:17 PM #4
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I can't even imagine how sad you feel without her dear Barb

I'd love to know her through your words should you feel you can share here with us...
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Old 04-18-2011, 01:35 PM #5
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I can't even imagine how sad you feel without her dear Barb

I'd love to know her through your words should you feel you can share here with us...
Pam was talented, intuitive, kind, generous and so much more. She loved animals and had 4 cats and a dog. She owned her own house and took great joy in decorating it. I remember she painted the old hardwood floor in the dining room - it was a beautiful flower design. I often wonder what the new owners did with it - whether they loved it or hated it. Pam was diagnosed with MS in 1997. She had a very responsible job at Herman Miller in Holland. She worked as long as she could then retired. She had to stop driving then started using a wheelchaair. She was still active on her computer. She had a website visited by a myriad of interesting people. In 2001 we decided that it would be better if she not live alone. I took early retirement and moved from South Bend to her house in Holland. I was with her for two years until she passed away in 2003. I am so glad I had that time with her.
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I am deeply sorry for your loss barbo i know your beautiful angel will always be around you an today she is wrapping those angel wings around you sending her love
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Oh sweet Barbo - I'm so glad you had that extra special time with her - and you know in your heart you did all you could... it just hurts, is all ...

Did you ever take pics of her unique floor? - or does it simply remain in your memories for ever and ever. She certainly was ambitious to undertake such a masterpiece! What a horrible shame that MS took so much from her and her loved ones...

Happy Birthday dear Pam.... you were loved during your time here on earth and will always be loved forever and ever.
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Oh sweet Barbo - I'm so glad you had that extra special time with her - and you know in your heart you did all you could... it just hurts, is all ...

Did you ever take pics of her unique floor? - or does it simply remain in your memories for ever and ever. She certainly was ambitious to undertake such a masterpiece! What a horrible shame that MS took so much from her and her loved ones...

Happy Birthday dear Pam.... you were loved during your time here on earth and will always be loved forever and ever.
No, I never took pictures of the floor - I thought we'd enjoy it forever.
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I can't even imagine and never want to know the pain of losing a child. I am so glad that you were able to be with her, I'm sure it was a comfort to you both!

Happy Birthday Pam! You left your mark on the world and are now on the other side leaving your mark there as well!

Warm Hugs for you Barb!
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